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He is really ugly and thinks i want to go out with him.

2006-11-28 12:02:16 · 18 answers · asked by dramaaddict247 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

im not trying to be mean, im just tired of ugly guys asking me out. Enough with the nsults!

2006-11-28 12:06:01 · update #1

He is WAY too concetied, always fixing his hair and asking if he looks okay

2006-11-28 12:09:34 · update #2

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If it's just you don't want to go out with him and he's not been stalking you or similar then there is no need to be so harsh. Just explain it nicely to him that you are not interested and it will be fine. If you get all nasty and say you hate him he's ugly etc it will cause problems and lots of needless hurt. Be kind to the guy.

2006-11-28 12:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by minotaur 4 · 0 0

I hope you would never tell him. It's ok to not like someone but you never want to hurt their feelings because Karma is no joke. be sensitive to other people's feelings and realize if the shoe was on the other foot how hurtful that would be to you. it may annoy you that this person "loves you" but know that hurting them for loving you is never a good thing. I think you should just tell the dude that you're not interested in a relationship and are not interested in going out and leave it at that. You don't have to explain or go into detail; but just be sensitive and not hurtful.
You can do it!!

2006-11-28 20:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Gotta question 4 you 1 · 0 0

First off looks aren't everything. Some of the better and nicer guys are average looking or just plain. Some guys who are good looking are conceded. In the case of this guy, if you pay attention to him a lot he may think you like him. If he asks you out just let him know you just want to be friends and hopefully he will understand. This way you don't hurt his feelings either.

Good luck.

2006-11-28 20:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by tdakpj 3 · 0 0

Oh my...another shallow person. Ok, I doubt very much this guy actually "LOVES" you. He is probably interested in having a relationship with you but that doesn't always equal love. As for "hating" him. I doubt you HATE him I would say that because you're obviously shallow you can't bear the thought of dating someone who according to you is less than attractive. If you would hate someone simply based on their looks then you're obviously way immature and need to grow up before you go out with anyone. This guy is mighty lucky you don't like him, you don't deserve to have someone interested in you.

2006-11-28 20:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

a. don't judge people by looks and don't tell him that he is ugly...
b. tell him that you don't want to go out with him...it wouldn't work out...and if he really likes you he should respect that decision...if he persists tell him that you will not take this disrepect to you and your body...say it strong and say it proud....you'll be amazed how guys will shut up when the girl doesn't act like a fragile little thing.

2006-11-28 20:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Natalya 3 · 0 0

Just tell him that you just don't think that he is what you are looking for in a guy. Tell him that you will remain friends with him but that is as far as you want to take it with him. always remember... HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY!!! You can be honest without being nasty!!!

2006-11-28 20:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Holly J 1 · 0 0

Wow, you are one ugly child yourself. Ugly on the inside is worse than ugly on the outside.

2006-11-28 20:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

totally just come out with it in as nice a way as possible...say I think you are nice but am not at all attracted to you and it's never gonna happen so forget about it and move on!

2006-11-28 20:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If you were really ugly, and liked someone who didn't like you, how would you want to be let down?

2006-11-28 20:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

try coming out and saying, well you see, you may like me, but im just not willing to be more than friends at this point.

2006-11-28 20:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by gemini06011990 2 · 0 0

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