Gosh, what did I do now??

Question

OK, so there are these 2 guys: Sam and Paul. Sam is Pauls bff and Paul is the guy I like. so today in 3rd period, i told Paul that i knew someone that liked him. and the were guessign the whole period! they were asking ?'s and everything, and i was answering intelligently. they didn't guess right, and i was getting really scared that they would. so in 5th period, i sit next to Sam in Math. and that's a 2 HOUR period!!!! 2 HOURS! so of course Sam was gonna get it outta me. and in the first 5 minutes, he did. so now Sam is OBVIOUSLY going to go tell Paul. don't even doubt that, bc Sam is the kinda guy that tells EVERYONE EVERYTHING! so ya. what do i do to lower the scaredness??

dude r u gay?- to the guy ith the first answer. and no they don't have myspaces. and they rn't gay. they're not like technically "bffs" but like they're best friends that hang out with there other friends (Addison, Dusty etc.)

and fyi i'm 13

Answer 1

Well let me tell you how your the young female mind thinks.Obviously you wanted Paul to find out but you didn't want to be the one to tell so you going to have Sam do it for you that way if he does reject you it won't be face to face which would have crushed you it would hurt less hearing it from someone else and i if he rejects you you can say it was a rumor and Sam is lying.And i know this because if you know that a certain person will tell your business why would tell him unless you wanted him to find out .Just play it cool and see how it works but if it were me even if i were scared I'd go up to him and tell him. Who cares about rejection so what you will live and some guys will come to you

Answer 2

Listen Pumpkin, that ship has sailed! You knew that Sam was that kind of guy and you let him know so he could go tell Paul. Sit back and wait. If Paul likes you, you'll know any minute! Oh the sweetness of youth! To lower the scaredness, just stay busy, go do something, watch a movie with a friend, do your homework, doodle, call some friends, talk to your family, play with the dog, eat, sleep and by the time you get to school tomorrow, you'll know quick enough what Paul has to say! GOOD LUCK my dear!

Answer 3

if sam tells so what just be ur self and let paul come to u after all he already knows by now , so wait a little and see if the guy is intersted if he is than there is nothing to worry about it's a winner and if he does not come than go talk to him if then he is not interest then don't waste ur time he is not for u and ur probably to good for him, my best wishes for u and good luck with paul

Answer 4

Just wait to see what Paul does. This happened to me with the girl I like, I was scared to lol.

Answer 5

Well just go over and talk with the guy and tell him it's you and tell him if he wants to go for a soda or something after school then sit down and explain to him how you feel. HE just might feel the same way about you. SO get up from your desk and go over there and tell him.

Answer 6

If u like the guy just go out with him if he says yes...Don't be scared.....The same thing happened 2 me....But now we go out and we have been goin out 4 1 years striaght!!!!!!!We love each other alot and i am not allowed 2 have boyfriends but my parents don't know..I hope they don't find out!!!I don't care if they do either..

Answer 7

this Paul guy sounds hot...does he have a myspace?

i think they are both gay, what straight guys are bff anyway?

Answer 8

i think deep down you wanted this to get out or you would'nt have mention that you like someone. just go for it ..you have nothing to lose. you would get the answer you've been waiting for. good luck!

Answer 9

first calm down. It's ok. It's better if he knows anyway, that way if he likes you back then you can start going out.

Answer 10

Sleep with Sam.

Then Paul.

Then both.

You might have grown up by then, but if not, they wont like you anymore anyway.

Good luck.