Or would you even consider asking your fiance to sign one. Personally I would consider having one.
2006-11-28 11:54:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would sign a pre-nup and I would ask for one to be signed too! I have some things that I have worked for and have no intention of splitting with anyone and would like that understood upfront and I would be willing to do the same. I would also agree and expect that anything earned, acquired, or bought during the marriage was ours and should be split between us, should the relationship fail. I think that is only fair. So with the right terms of a pre-nup, yes I would sign.
2006-11-28 11:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Did u come off the little short bus?!! Hell no I would not sign a pre-nup for the simple fact u wouldn't be getting a dime!!!! he could possibly have a woman on the side and she gets everything while u are looking like a damn fool with nothing. If he does u wrong, take him for everything he has. U see, my future hubby and I have a understanding in our relationship. we have been talking almost 3 yrs now and we don't know if we should get married now or later.. but we both agreed never to sign a pre-nup because our love is strong like that. We love each other to death and we have never had an argument nor disagreement in our life.. Take my advice honey, don't be stupid, be smart. doing that is just like making a deal with the devil himself... i'm not being a smartass, but I'm being real....
2006-11-28 20:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by sassyfox2007 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There should be no doubts when going into marriage.
Therefore, No. My fiance agree's with me. We don't plan on a divorce.
I go in the marriage with what I have and I leave with what I have. Same for him. Whatever we both get during marriage is 50/50. In the best interest of children, most will go to them as money is only money. It's called work. That is how you get money. Not out of spite or being cold hearted. I am not like that.
2006-11-29 02:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I had more things to protect or my future spouce did (heirlooms, property, inheritance, kids, pets possibly) I'd consider it. For me it'd have to be a big difference though. Neither my bf or I have anything really so we won't need one. My dad is almost ready to retire. If he were to get married again my sister and I would insist on a pre-nup.
2006-11-28 21:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by K S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never sign a pre-nup.
If the guy has assets or property, he'll just put them on his mother or father's name that way when he gets married, you won't get half. What for? I mean if you marry, for 2 years, and he has 2 million worth of property, why should you get half? for what>?
2006-11-28 21:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by DREENA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally have no problem with signing one. It's not about not trusting the other person, but it is about protecting each other's interests in case something terrible happens. It is always good to know and be prepared for what may or may not come.
2006-11-29 01:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, I made my ex sign one and I'm sure glad I did! There is nothing better then seeing you ex poor while you are rich!
Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so horny' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?
2006-11-28 19:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Yes, I would sign one. If I ever get married again, I plan to insist on it. It's the only way to protect both spouses and the children from previous marriages if any.
2006-11-28 19:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a formula for failure, it says you are already thinking ahead to the break-up. States generally have laws to protect property rights for property brought into a marriage and anything that is acquire once married (money and property) is generally split evenly (or hopefully at least equitably).
2006-11-28 20:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Yo it's Me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I didn't sign one..he is the one with all the $$ and even in a divorce I am not that cold hearted to take everything
2006-11-28 20:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by GD-Fan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋