There is a guy at my college who i have been flirting with and have become friends with the past few weeks. So last sunday he asked me to go to his soccer game next week, we flirted some more. Then I invited him down to my dorm room. My roommate was gone so I asked him to stay the night. We snuggled, flirted, but then we started kissing and making out. We tried to sleep, he stopped holding me all of a sudden, which I thought was strange since we were just making out and snuggling not to long before. Then at 6 a.m. he said he was going back up to his room to sleep. I figured it was becaus i have a twin and uncomfortable bed. But now he won't talk to me at all, he used to talk to me everyday. it has been 2 days, and no word. what the happened? What is he thinking? Why is he ignoring me?! Does he just need to think about things, need some space, or was I a bad kisser? I don't understand what happened. Please help me understand what is going on in this guys mind!
2006-11-28 11:52:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you prob had bad breath
Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so *****' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?
2006-11-28 11:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
maybe hes been busy or just not in the mood to deal with anyone right now, or maybe hes a typical guy who was just looking for something he didnt get.... you can never know whats on a guys mind lol. it can be a number of things just give it a few days and if he doesnt call you move one you're in college have fun don't stress over a guy im sure you will meet plenty of them
good luck honey and don't stress it so much
2006-11-28 11:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he "all of a sudden" stop holding you at 6 oclock and left or was it a few hours before he left. Either way you didnt go all the way and he spent a whole night trying. just a thought.
2006-11-28 12:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by friendly advice from maine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have tested ur character and after looking at ur behaviour
at the bed may he did not expect u to be that open about sex.May be he doubted that u might have done the same thing with all others.so he is ignoring u.so be careful and truthful next time.
2006-11-28 12:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by ChanIndian 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am sorry to say this sweety but he used you up.......i know this is going to hurt real bad but none the less this is true....so now this is what you gotta do.............give it one last shot and try to contact him.......if he still ignores you then simply begin a mission to move on.........really this is true..........a true lover would discuss what a great time you guys had and to take the next step forward........he however just dosen't even want a second glance at you.......so move on.........get a guy who will respect you and appreciate the special moment between the two of you..........give him the boot really..........let him see wht a loser he is that he lost his chance to be with you.........
2006-11-30 21:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he thought that u have done the same thing with all of ur friends u know my girl also did the same thing to me i loved her lot but she did the same thing as u did to my other friend also by seeing this i have left her to talk but i cant forget her i still love her u dont worry try to talk him by calling him or meet him and propose him and tell him that u truly love him a lot ok
2006-11-28 14:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by nagesh puttu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweety he thought may be ur an easy pond for fishing was trying to take advantage better be careful next time
2006-11-28 21:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by shruti s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and talk to him may be he has someone in life with whom he is serious....
or may be he must have felt you stopped him night back to have Sxx with him he was looking out for something else....
best thing would be to ask him...... you will surely get the answer
and if you feel say sorry to him..........
2006-11-28 11:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by asgar s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omigod! Maybe he was just playing you, I dont think thats it...well maybe he is embarrased, or feels awkard around you now that you both made out and stuff. You should try talking to him, and see because wondering/pondering makes you fat... lol
2006-11-28 11:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he was hoping to do a little more and felt disappointed
2006-11-28 11:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋