Hi, here's my problem. There's one guy in one of my classes that keeps looking at me (my friend calls it 'ogling'). He has done things that have indicated to me by far that he was interested, like getting close to me and smiling, and going out of his way to walk past me after classes. He tries to talk to me, bits and pieces here and there, but not enough to break the ice. He is real shy, when I catch him staring and try to look back at him, he looks away quickly. This went on since the beginning of the semester.
I have shown some interest as much as I can by looking back before he looks away, but now he's acting uninterested. Is he playing hard to get? What do I do? The semester is almost over, and I need to figure this out fast. (I don't want him to lose interest, my apprehension in approaching him is that I don't know if he has a girlfriend). I was going to talk to him, but his distance is confusing me.
Thanks in advance!
2006-11-28 11:49:57 · 7 answers · asked by dkuddle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, by the way-I'm in college, and this guy and I are both adults.
2006-11-28 12:20:04 · update #1
Chances are he likes you, but is unsure of how you feel about him. Just talk to him about how you feel hint that the both of you should hang out and such. I'm sure he will understand :). You probably are not showing him any of even enough interest for him to know what to do, so try to show more interest ( looking back before he looks away is not really a sign of interest i believe )
2006-11-28 12:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by DannyC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a major case of shyness. Ok end of the semester finals are coming up right...you guys are in the same class. Ask him do you have the notes from last period i really need them. or I really do not understand (even though you do) could you help me out maybe we can meet in the Cafe (cafe, why the cafe because it has a lot of people in it and he will not feel obilgated) That way you can break the ice and it will not be that wierd because it is about class...and if he seems interested go for it.
2006-11-28 11:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's either inexperienced or just too shy, or both. generally if a guy looks at you once or twice he's just checking you out. more than that and he's definately interested. test the waters. talk to him one day, give him the opportunity to ask you out for a coffee or something, and other hints.
good luck.
2006-11-28 12:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably shy.
Casually invite him to an after school event (a party, movie, out with friends, etc.)
If he refuses or doesn't show it it his loss.
2006-11-28 11:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk to him first about it. If he talks to you, act normal. If he likes you or wants to go out with you he will let you now sooner or later.
2006-11-28 11:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by sandy02 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-28 11:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just approach him, and start some small talk...then get his number
2006-11-28 11:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋