i've been with this boy for some days and im really not liking him liking "him" i feel weird around him and im just not ready to contuine this realtionship.should i dump him or what.but the only reason im with him is because i love him so bad.and if i could i would break up with him.its just hard to me bc i love this boy oh so much but i know that i dont mean crap to him what do i do?
2006-11-28 11:46:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would if i were you
2006-11-28 11:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by leelandrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is how you feel already and it has not been that long i would say break up with him. The longer you stay with him the harder it will be to break up and if you know you don't mean anything to him why stay. I am sure you will find the right person for you, someone who respects you and loves you for who you are. It might take awhile but it seems you are miserable right now with this guy so dump him
2006-11-28 19:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by saliberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont mean anything to him then yyou should move on wit dating ......i am a guy and somtimes that guy will come closer to you if you play hard to get such as when he tries to talk to you just turn your head but afeter a while of doing that then talk to him and says if im just here to make you look good then im leaving you ....and if you do leave him then dont let him see you eith the next guy you date and after a while like 4-5 months then ask him if he is ready to accept the responsibilties of having a girlfriend
2006-11-28 19:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by CrippledFingerz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him but you're not liking him? Dump him and then go to counselling. No, really. You'll be doing both of you a favor.
2006-11-28 19:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel weird around him, ask yourself how you would feel more comfortable. If you would feel more comfortable breaking it off, then you should do that. And if you would feel more comfortable giving him some extra time to sort things out, then you should do that. Whatever it is, you should follow your instinct.
2006-11-28 19:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by mianakao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him now
cuz if you wait longer
it will be
WORSE
for him and you
and DONT say
"hey, you never know what will happen"
cuz he'll be living on that thought of you coming back to him
jsut say its not working out
2006-11-28 19:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel weird and you have to ask that question, you dont love him. Move on and stop being stupid.
2006-11-28 19:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by human_meat_is_yummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him that you liked it better when you were friends because... (then make up a reason that would make sense to you) and tell him you love hanging out with him, and still want to, you just think its awkward being more than just friends.
2006-11-28 19:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_caligirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you break up with someone you loved? you are just probably trying to sabotage your relationship because of your insecurities
2006-11-28 19:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking, honey, it's time. Move on and start flirting!
2006-11-28 19:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your instinct and dump him now
2006-11-28 19:48:47 · answer #11 · answered by William B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋