ok, today my b/f tried to hold my hand but my hands were in my hoodie pockets and he jerckes away and went over to his cousin i am going with him to the dance should i hold his hand then or 2morrow????????????? or should i kiss him????????
2006-11-28 11:30:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only do what you feel perfectly comfortable doing! And obviously you may not be comfortable holding his hand ...
Make it a rule while you are young--never do anything with a guy that you are not 100% comfortable with. Otherwise, you will cause yourself a LOT of problems and heartache.
2006-11-28 11:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by britty♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends. You should see if he really likes you or if he is just doing it just because. I had a friend once who had a guy ask her out and he didnt hardly even like her, he was just bascially doing it because he was dared to. Ok so the point is if he is really into you he should be willing to hold your hand in public. It shouldnt be a problem. if you havent been going out that long and your young I would hold out on the kissing. Someone once told me KISS...
k - keep
i - it
s - super
s - special
don't kiss the guy just becuase you feel like you need to. You'll know when the moment is right. Remeber don't rush into things and dont go out witht he guy if he doesnt even like you. I hope everything works out!
2006-11-28 11:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by shortmalla234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in that case if he holds your hand go with the flow and have fun. but remember, let him kiss you first. you just show him that you like him, not with words...but with decent gestures (like a smile or a wink!)
that way he'll see that you are a decent girl, and worth it to take the "relationship" to the next level.
it worked for me.....too bad I'm divorced, but experience is the best teacher. and every first time is memorable.
2006-11-28 11:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by alizelatina41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should kiss him while you guys are dancing and hold his hand as you leave
2006-11-28 11:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by madlion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should do both. Hold his hand to make him comfortable and kiss him to double that comfort.
2006-11-28 11:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Emem W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him and he wants to hold your hand and/or kiss you andyou think that it is right then its great if you want to. Just remember that he needs to be considerate of what you want too :) hope that helps you
2006-11-28 11:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by free2ride_cowgirlup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do both hold him kiss him have fun with him at the dance
2006-11-28 11:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by Galaxy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are bf&gf
then...
YOU should hold his hands tomorrow
just like when yousee him walk towards him from behind and grab his hand
g e n t l y
and like play with his hands with your fingers
thats what my girlfriend does [:
and its the guy who should kiss the girl first
2006-11-28 11:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw..how cute. Hold his hand and try to make sure he doesn't spill any punch on you at the dance.
2006-11-28 11:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u must be like ten. just hold his freakin hand. its not like ure losing ure virginity. mabe after the dance u could ask him if u could hold something else. ;)
2006-11-28 11:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋