You see me and him been going out for a month and at first i thought he was butt ugly and he would call me everyday everymoment and i would never call him back. But eventually i started calling him atleast 3 times a week and im learning to love him but now he hasnt called me for 7 days i know he is alive my friends see him outside everyday. Now im freaking out and i find myself thinking about him every moment i miss him so much....I called him yesterday and usually he is so happy to hear from me but he didnt seem very interested in what i was saying and told me he would call back but he never did what must i do im starting to get a little depressed
2006-11-28 11:26:15 · 15 answers · asked by da_luvable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he just called me and i was so nervous i nearly peed my pants i dont get it why am i so attracted to dis boy now. i just kept stuttering so i told him i will call back
2006-11-28 11:41:25 · update #1
My intentions are good i wasn't using him at first he just seemed like he would be all over me and annoying but as i got to know him i started to love the attention. When we first met he was liked me so much and it really shocked me that someone liked me that much, Thats why i didnt believe him
2006-11-28 11:44:04 · update #2
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
2006-11-28 11:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Wat L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad and kind of puzzled for if youthough of him as being so ugly wwhy did you go out with him-sounds like you used him big time and made the mistake of taking him for granted. To have and keep a relationship requires EFFORT. Maybe you started liking him when he wasn't calling as much and now want the attention. If its NOT LOVE then do the guy a favor and leave him alone. If your intentions are Honorable then call him and invite him out to lunch, or to get a hamburger and you should pay for you are doing the inviting and explain that you were foolish in not appreciating him , that you are very sorry and apologize for your inconsiderate rudeness in not returning his call(also very immature) but if he would give you a chance you'd make it up. Don't make the assumption that because you are doing this gesture that the guy will fall all over you for he just got plain tiread of being used. if he still isn't interested anymore then chalk it up to a life lesson-Judgeing by looks shows a shallow character and people who get used eventually catch on and move on.Its also very difficult to get a 2nd chance for trusthas been broken,being used when one loves is devastating and 99%of the time ends it.
2006-11-28 11:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That age distinction is very significant. With an age distinction of 6 years, incredibly seeing as she's an grownup and you're nevertheless underage, it isn't any longer ok. it is not peculiar, yet having a sexual relationship along with her could be incorrect. How did you meet a 21 12 months previous woman besides? attempt assembly women your guy or woman age - 15 or sixteen.
2016-10-13 07:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by thedford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a fifteen year old boy.. immature. He probably is dating someone else. Boys do that bc they can be inconsiderate when they are young. Leave before you get even more hurt. You will experience other realtionships and learn a lot from them. Love can be really exciting but also hurtful at times too. Good luck sweetie everything will be okay.
2006-11-28 11:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, it's called two can play that game. You played it first and you were winning, now he got smarter along the way and now you're loosing. Call him and talk to him about whats going on, tell him how u feel and if he still acts up. Sorry but at least u tried and always remember. You started it first.
2006-11-28 11:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by jamie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in his court. Wait for him to call, otherwise, you will seem needy and annoying which is definitely not cool. He will call you when he is ready. Good luck!
2006-11-28 11:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said you didnt really like him when you first started dating so maybe he got that vibe and is a little causios about that so now that you really like him maybe you should talk with him and tell him how much you like him and how your feeling hope it works out !!!
2006-11-28 11:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by °~°sØccer_GÏrl°~° 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should forget about boys just yet theres plenty of time for that stuff when you grow up just concentrate on your education at the moment its the most important thing
2006-11-28 11:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Farhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the game of love
dont call him back for a week
when he finally calls you act like your bored with anything he has to say it will turn the tables, much like the way he did it to you
2006-11-28 11:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by jsav209 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is an immature little boy who will do funny things.
But if you want a real man - email me :)
2006-11-28 11:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋