My boyfriend for a few months told me he needs space because he has to figure out his life. Promised me so much and swore to God he would never leave now, he needs space. What should I do?
2006-11-28 11:18:55 · 15 answers · asked by SPR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him in a large cave
2006-11-28 11:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space. Same thing happened to me a while back, so I played hard to get. I went out with my girlfriends more and more, didn't answer his calls as much, and gave him his "space" that he needed. It worked like a charm...he asked me why I was being distant and my response was, well you asked for space so Im giving it to you. If that doesnt work, he's not worth it...there are a ton of great guys out there :)
2006-11-28 11:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sistah...he just broke up with you.
Swearing to God means nothing...people make promises of all sorts in relationships, when everything is warm and fuzzy, that mean nothing in the end...
Never make a promise you have no way of knowing if you can or will keep.
Sorry your relationship didn't work out...in the future anyone that makes unrealistic promises should be a BIG red flag to you.
2006-11-28 11:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space. Most men when they say they need space, really need their space. Maybe he's going through a life-changing moment and needs to look within himself to figure things out... or maybe he just wants to end it w/ you. Who knows but good luck.
2006-11-28 11:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love him deeply? You know why he needs space to figure out his life? Without all this info, its difficult to help you. What exactly happen to him.
2006-11-28 11:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the space he needs. he may come back to you...he may not. you shouldn't try to hold on to him like a life preserver. oh, and take his promise to come back with a grain of salt. you never know what or who he may discover in his "space"
2006-11-28 11:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by morequestions 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what he asks.............give him the space. If it's only been a few months, you'll beable to move on easy enough.
When a person wants their space, they want their space!!
2006-11-28 11:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space and be open to the possibility of a break up. Don't let him catch you slippin. Move around. Trust me..been there and done that...
2006-11-28 11:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by Making Them Listen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have his space, that's the best thing you can do. Don't call him every day either checking up on him, wait until he calls you.
2006-11-28 11:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Renee W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space and disappear into it yourself. Don't promise him you'll be waiting around.
2006-11-28 11:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be away from eachother for a couple of days so u can have some breathing room and that way when u see eachother agian ull be so excited to see him and so will he. to make sure it doesnt happen agian dont be with together in one place for so long
2006-11-28 11:22:47 · answer #11 · answered by flirtygirl55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋