usally a guy have no idea if a girl likes him while she is dropping alot of hints why do they do that?
2006-11-28 11:13:01 · 15 answers · asked by Carla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because all she does is "drop hints". Why can't most chicks just tell it like it is? (I am a chick btw)
Guys and gals are wired differently. Guys aren't "clueless" they simply often don't pick up on subtle hints and clues. Also, coming out and saying what you mean/feel helps prevent embarrassment when someone THINKS they are picking up on clues, but they read them wrong (or they weren't clues at all).
Stop playing games and just come out with it...then the guys won't seem so clueless.
2006-11-28 11:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not because we are clueless, we are just men. We are not women and don't look at everything said to us as some sort of cryptic message meaning something completely different that what is being said.
If you want a guy to know how you feel, quit it with the "hints" and just tell him already.
2006-11-28 19:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you see the thing is that alot of girls usually enjoy just being big flirts they act like they like the guy and do alot of stuff at the end they just end up saying something stupid like "No I was just messing around with you" I just wonder why can't a woman just tell you what they feel for you instead of doing other stupid things what whatever that just me hope that helps.
2006-11-28 19:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST TREAT BOYS WITH CARE AND RESPECT. Now, having said that. You actually treat boys like a mule. Speak softly, after you've gotten their attention with a 2X4. Roughly translated this means. You gotta hit us in the head with it fore we get it. Even if we git it we usually talk ourselves outta doing anything cause we're afraid we'll be rejected or be wrong. WOW, it's amazing we, as a species, haven't become extinct. We had been married for around 7 years before my bride told me she caught me? I thought it just happened. BTW it's nearly 37 now.
2006-11-28 19:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by dulcrayon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to get to the bottom of this question you have to know the difference between guys and girls. Guys have all these little compartments in their minds with everything in separate compartments. Then there are girls...everything mashes in all together and they connect everything.
Sometimes the guys compartments have to bump each other in order for them to finally understand
Best way to do it fast is to tell them flat out
2006-11-28 19:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just that men prefer things to be strait foward and not beating around the bushes. Also because it's harder for men to pick up on cues like that due to the men's psyche. Just be more direct.
2006-11-28 19:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Wat L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is probably because guys aren't used to be pursued. You may need to be more direct.
My brother nearly missed going out with his future wife because he was slow on the uptake. She was more direct and now teases him about it all the time.
2006-11-28 19:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by happytone365 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because they only think with their muscles and they let there penis think for them. so of them are not so educated. they rather be the bad boy who didn't listen in class and wabted to party and then thought i would be cool to drop out. Who really know , they really might havebeen made from a monkey
2006-11-28 19:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by peggy1purple 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fear of rejection, looking like a fool and being hurt so yeah we are blind to what is in front of us but we all want what is in front of us some of you lady's might be right us blokes are fools and blind to what is close, so i guess the day i open my eyes will be the day i smile
2006-11-28 19:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is just playin hard to get! and also maybe guys can say the same thing about girls!
2006-11-28 19:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Boondocksaint 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋