I have known, we'll call him David, for about a year now. He's 18 and he's in college. We used to talk a whole lot. Ever since he found out I had a boyfriend, and he saw me hanging out with him at a soccer game. He hasnt talked to me a whole lot since. I have always thought of him as a lovable big brother. I want to start talking with him again, but its always uncomfortable when we do talk. What's going on?
2006-11-28 11:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bet is he is or was attracted to you...and now feels insecure in your relationship because he knows you have a guy already...my advice would be to let him initiate any further relationship even as a friend...it may take a while but he'll probably come around...
2006-11-28 11:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by surferchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gather from your description of the situation that he actually loved you, but was too afraid to tell you. Now he's hurt and jealous both at the same time, and if you tell him you want to be just friends this will not help the situation. Unless you have real feeling for this person, and are planning on dating, you might be better off just cutting your losses.
2006-11-28 19:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello he likes he really likes u and when he saw u wit him he felt like u hated him because u talked to him lots he thought u liked him just keep on talkin to him and say that u only liked him as a friend and hes a good friend and u never turn ur bak on him
2006-11-28 19:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by hotpinkbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds to me like he liked you and was afraide to tell you for reasons only he knows.there isnt really anything you can do but ask him why he is so standoffish.tell him to be honest that is what friends do tell you things honestly whether you want to hear it or not.
2006-11-28 19:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by joannluna1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he doesn't like you're gay. Now, what you can do is either talk to him about it or just get over it and let him do whatever he wants and recognize you're just not in the plans because of your sexual choice or orientation. Sorry bud, hopefully it all works out.
2006-11-28 19:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by kisstheraingirl12489 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well he probably really liked u and when he saw u had a bf he thought he had no chance with u so talk to him
2006-11-28 19:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by tallnpretty91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted to be ur b/f now he doesnt kno what to see in you as a friend
he thought of u as a prospective g/f but now he doesnt kno what to think or how to be ur friend
2006-11-28 19:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the man did not wanted to be youre friend he wanted 2 be your man..
2006-11-28 19:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he likes you. You need to ask him about it.
2006-11-28 19:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to bang you and gave up
2006-11-28 19:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋