2006-11-28 10:49:26 · 28 answers · asked by sad_hubby 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I guess for some people its how they nurse.
i mean i know a acquaintance that wears low tops and would literally pull one out of her top and feed her child.
I have no problem with breast feeding, but i do feel there is an etiquette to it.
I am sure that this isn't the case in your situation. but i know that's why some people get embarrassed or concerned.
Mind you i have also seen some of my friends breast feed and its done very discretely. You honestly wouldn't know, besides a couple of sucking noises at times. :)
If people in that situation get all upset.. Then yes.. i would be telling them to butt out.
2006-11-28 10:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by A Lady Dragon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow your spouse has ****, Hell i did not recognize she had ****, dam you propose all females have those issues and that they easily have an invaluable objective, different than you to play with. guy seems such as you have the topic. Its in comparison to she is stripping and dealing around the backyard bare. I even have seen females breast feeding in public in the previous and the breast is in many instances lined with a new child's head, the nipple is often hid interior a new child's mouth and if all and sundry I propose all and sundry has a topic with a new child being fed then they and that i propose they have an exceedingly great insecure subject. She is feeding your toddler, she isn't not letting the buddies play with your toys. Dam strengthen up guy, end making a mountain out of a ant hill. Is there some thing specific approximately her breast that no different lady has.
2016-12-17 17:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by sory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you embarassed because of what people are saying, or because to you think it is not right? who cares what people think? This is YOUR wife feeding YOUR daughter. You should be so proud. If it is really bothering you, just tell her that you think she would be more confortable in a quiker place. Actually go with her there, and stay with her (in conversation) until they are done. She won't feel like you are embarassed by her, but that you want to participate in this experience with her. And she will love the quiet alone time between the two of you during this parent-child bonding moment.
2006-11-28 11:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by moks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By openly do you mean just totally out there, or somewhat covered by a blanket for example? Nursing a child is a wonderful beautiful thing, be proud of your wife for choosing to do so. There is nothing better for her and your daughter. It's too bad people get so worked up about it, and why don't those same people find the hootchies who walk around looking like barely dressed trash offensive? Now that's gross!
2006-11-28 10:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by granolagirl 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You asked this question several months ago so by now you should be over your problem (got used to it). If you indeed really have this problem, it will soon end, as babies grow up.
Boobs are for milk, if you look at them in any other way, it may be hard for you to see anyone nursing.
I have a notion you just like asking this particular question.
2006-11-28 11:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, is your wife embarrassed? If she isn't, you need to grow up. Nursing is natural. Check out this website that talks about nursing in general, and nursing in public in specific.
http://www.breastfeeding.com/advocacy/advocacy_bfinpublic.html
2006-11-28 11:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by istitch2 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is covering her breast with a baby blanket or burping cloth then what's the problem? Now if she has her entire breast just hanging in the wind with the little one attached that's another issue. Lighten up! Why have a kid with someone if you can't talk to them openly and honestly about ANYTHING!!!
2006-11-28 11:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by notblueatall 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as she is covering herself up, I don't think it's reaonable to have a problem with it. However, I also understand why people would be embarrassed seeing a bare breast in public-it's just not what we are used to to in in this country. I would remind your wife that discretion is the better part of valor.
2006-11-28 10:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy Lou 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs to put a light receiving blanket over the baby and her breast when she nurses. Although it is a natural function, people don't want to see it. Most rest rooms have an area where there are chairs and she can nurse the baby there.
2006-11-28 10:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why not just let your baby girl die of starvation? I mean that is better than embarassement isn't it? Why are you being an idiot, because some people are too ignorant to face reality?
Grow up and, unless you are prepared to pick up your shirt and feed your little girl, I suggest you be more supportive of your WIFE than your are of a STRANGER. Good thing you aren't my husband, I'd knock you silly!!
Breasts were made for BREAST FEEDING, be a good boy and enjoy them in bed at home and let your baby enjoy them for what they were meant to do in public.
2006-11-28 10:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by BookLady 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋