ok. my boyfriend is really nice. he loves me and i love him. the problem is, whenever people see me with him they say "stay away from him. he's stupid" or they make fun of me. people have been treating me badly since ive been with him. i still want to go out with him, but i dont want to be made fun at. HELP!!!!!!! (this question is worth answering. someone will get ten points!)
2006-11-28 10:24:02 · 14 answers · asked by blah b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not about what people say. If you rerally and truly care about him, it doesnt matter what other people say... the only thing that matters is that you are with the one you want to be with, and if people are sayin that, you dont need to be around them anyway.
2006-11-28 10:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not say how old you and he are but that is beside the point. The people who make fun of you have no class and are not friends of any sort. As long as he treats you well and you get along well, I can't see what the problem is. You need to really say something to the people that are doing this to you, like a "shock effect". It will shut them up in a big hurry. And while you are at it, you might want to ask them........."did you see me call you to ask for your opinion?" Remember opinions are like *** holes. Everyone has them and some like to show the *** they truly are. Good Luck!
2006-11-28 18:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by ladygwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi the only advice I can give you is if you love each other it shouldn't matter what other people think or say.You wouldn't want to miss out on something special because of other peoples opinions. As for the people who are saying these things they are probably not happy in their own life so they are taking it out on you. It only proves one point that they are not your friends because if they were they would just want see you happy.
2006-11-28 18:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by brite_eyes1126 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is your life and your decisions... maybe try to see their point... I mean is there anything why they should be jealous of you?? if not then it is probable that they tell you such things straight from their hearts... but if they are... the best thing to do in my opinion is analyse the situation and just ask some some of these people why do they state such things...
2006-11-28 18:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself and him! Don't sit back and let retarded people ruin your time with your boyfriend or in any case. Don't care about what they think or how they feel it only matters how you and your boyfriend feel. Besides why would you want to please people who are complete A**holes! If your happy with your boyfriend then stay with him and stand up for yourself and him!!! Good Luck:)
2006-11-28 18:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if anyone ever makes fun of you, look them in the eye and tell them seriously that you will make your own decisions and you know what's best for you. your relationships are in your control. people who talk to you like this don't respect you or your relationship with your boyfriend, and they need to know to back off :)
2006-11-28 18:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why is it important what others think?? its about u and only u..if u like him whocares what people think dont get wrapped up in that..did that a long time ago..worried about what people think takes energy..just enjoy life and if u like this guy stay with him enjoy the time together...but just worry about your feelings..
2006-11-28 18:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him and he loves you why worry about what other people think or say. as long as the both of you are happy with eachother nothing else should matter. you need to put yourself first. don't worry about what other people say they aren't living you life. i'm sure you don't tell them what to do with their lives. good luck.
2006-11-28 18:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really into him, then it should not matter what people say. Think about how all this makes him feel and stick up for him.
2006-11-28 18:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by babydoll12481 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in this for you and him .... or for what everyone else thinks. People like to talk..... let them and be happy with who you are as a person and a couple.
2006-11-28 18:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋