I'm crazy about my boyfriend. We just got to this really good level too. Then there was this party, and these people were playing spin the bottle. (and yeah, who even PLAYS that anymore, I'm like 24) Mind you, this girl who likes my bf was part of the group. My boyfriend was in another room talking to some people...and these spin the bottle people kept bugging me to play. And I'm like "no, I have a boyfriend and he's right over there." So FINALLY, I gave in. I don't know why I did. But I didn't even KISS them, I just did a stupid little peck on the side of the mouth that you would give your best friend or relative, for real.
So...I told him I played, and he asked me if I kissed this guy and I said no because I didn't want him to start anything. Then the stupid girl that likes him told him that I kissed the guy, so now he's pissed at me. I've apologized, I've told him how much I like him and how stupid the whole thing is, and he's still SO mad. PLEASE, how can I fix it??
2006-11-28 10:23:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously, I'd be more pissed that you lied about it than actually kissing a guy on the cheek. Apologize earnestly, and stress that you're sorry for lying. That should be what he's most upset about if he acts his age.
2006-11-28 10:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing you can really do but tell him the truth, the play by play, and what really happened. in fact, tell him everything you just told us in this question:
I'm crazy about my boyfriend. We just got to this really good level too. Then there was this party, and these people were playing spin the bottle. (and yeah, who even PLAYS that anymore, I'm like 24) Mind you, this girl who likes my bf was part of the group. My boyfriend was in another room talking to some people...and these spin the bottle people kept bugging me to play. And I'm like "no, I have a boyfriend and he's right over there." So FINALLY, I gave in. I don't know why I did. But I didn't even KISS them, I just did a stupid little peck on the side of the mouth that you would give your best friend or relative, for real.
So...I told him I played, and he asked me if I kissed this guy and I said no because I didn't want him to start anything. Then the stupid girl that likes him told him that I kissed the guy, so now he's pissed at me.
if he doesnt forgive you, than hes just insecure, stubborn, and stupid. and you deserve the best!
2006-11-28 10:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by fadedsmiiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is mad since you didnt tell him the truth...for relationships a kiss is a kiss no matter where it is. As for fixing it. Show him how much you love him. Prove to him that if it was a kiss then it was nothing compaired to the connection you guys have together.
How to prove...? Rememeber all those questions about "y do you like me?" or "why choose me?"
Those are always nice to use...or you could always answer them for him.
And trust me on this...many guys would rather die than lose the girl they love. also we have selfesteem issues...you think girls have it tough? Guys have them too, we just dont like talking about it.
-good luck and may things work out for you.
2006-11-28 10:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hideo Okino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you want to patch issues up, tell him that if he easily believes in horoscopes and takes them that heavily, and in case you rather are what he says you're in accordance to the zodiacs, then that should not be the determining component if he ought to date you regardless. Sorry for stealing this next line from a movie, yet its real. once you adore someone, you ought to love all of them. The belongings you discover stunning and the belongings you do not discover stunning. because no one is proper. anybody has flaws. Have him watch the action picture Valentines Day, because its a sturdy and humorous action picture (chick flick or not =P ) and has various of rather sturdy messages in it about love. If he nonetheless would not replace his ideas, then in simple terms enable him move and he's not worth it. Sorry to take heed to about that, yet i desire this helps =). And keep in mind that if issues do not exercising consultation with him, don't be too unhappy about it because issues will continually get extra powerful in case you shop protecting on. this is not the right of the international =).
2016-11-27 19:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by barreda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told I would have kept my ground in saying no about the game. But just give him some time to think it over. If he doesn't trust you enough to know you wouldn't do anything to hurt him, then he probably isn't worth fussing over. But give him some space and see what happens.
2006-11-28 10:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Renee W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth nothing more. Thats all you can do. If he doesn't believe you then its his loss. Tell exactly how you feel and what happened, also mention that if he believes that girl over his girlfriend then something isn't right there. Ya'll will work it out.
2006-11-28 10:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you did it under pure pressure, you wont do it again, and you DON'T have ANY feeling for the guy you kissed. Then give your boyfriend the biggest kiss of his life.
2006-11-28 10:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by DolphinLover<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to forget and try not to show him that u did it. help him to forget so by discussing other thing or by remembering him if he did such things with other girls. if not , leave him, and live Ur life with an other and do not repeat it again ." this party". do u think that kissing is forgivable. give him time.
2006-11-28 10:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf the real story and say how long u's were together and how much u reallyyyyyyyyy loveeeeee him he might understand.Don't forget to tell him that the girl that likes him only wants to slipt u's up.
2006-11-28 10:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you he will forgive and for get especially for some thing so petty. i dont think thers much more you can do you said sorry and you told him the truth know its up to him
2006-11-28 10:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋