We discussed in the begining that both of us didn't want a gf or a bf. we have a lot of mutual friends and occasionally meet up & all hang out on the weekends. We go on dates during the week & i love spending time w/ him. like 7 months ago he started to get jealous of me dancing & hanging out (friendly) with other guys so i told him let's be "together" then. we were "exclusive" for about a month and that was the worst month of the whole relationship. I told him to break up with me but we would still "talk". he agreed.
We've been having sex for a pretty much the whole relationship. And it pisses me off that when were all around our friends he does act like i sleep @ his house all the time... maybe i'm just more of an affectionate person than him? do u think he just isn't ready 2 b in a serious relationship or he doesn't even like me, or using me 4 sex. I ask him what's up & does he even still like me like i like him, he says yes. I know i'm pushin him away by this same conversation.
2006-11-28 10:01:56 · 8 answers · asked by Ango 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not judging but think back, you both agreed you didn't want relationships int he beginning, then you start being friends with benefits, you break up because of what ever reason, then you'll all go back to being friends. you're no together but get jealous when someone is with someone else. you both aren't ready to be with each other or anyone right now. sit down and talk to him, and do jsut talk, listen. tell him everything you just told us. both of you need to decide what you want from each other and stick to it. a booty call is a booty call and nothing more. there's only physical, no emotional. don't do that anymore unless you can handle it. some people can be "f*ck buddies" and some can't. are either of you mature enough to be buddies, with the same friends, and be able to handle them being with someone else? if you can't then just be friends. make the decision together, if not then you'll be mniserable and so will your friends.
2006-11-28 10:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appears like neither easily one of you're prepared for a intense relationship. before each and every thing in case you 2 at the instantaneous are not in a intense relationship then you definitely favor to end having sex. And move decrease back to be in simple terms what you rather are acquaintances.
2016-11-27 19:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by berson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, if you became "exclusive" and it was the worst month of your life........then MOVE ON!!!
Of course, he is using your for sex..... why wouldn't he?? You are letting him. He gets "it" whenever he wants and he has no strings attached.
You deserve better for yourself. End the "friendship" and move on. It will hurt and it will take some time to get use to being alone, but wouldn't you rather be alone & be happy then be with a
man who OBVIOUSLY does NOT LOVE YOU???
Good Luck.
2006-11-28 10:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"sigh" i wish the girl im trying to convince had the mind of you. im in the exact opossit postion. im the guy, i want the serious relationship, she doesnt. gahhhhhh i know how u feel. hope all gets better. the only thing i can think of, is to talk to him about it, guys arnt taht hard to reach if tehy have feelings for you. so tlk to him, he'll listen.
best of luck
2006-11-28 10:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Duff M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...maybe you've matured and you need the exclusive relationship, if he likes you that much he'll agree...step it up and ask him out!!!!
Do you really want his friends to know that you guys sleep together or do they already know and don't need you two on eachother where ever you go??
2006-11-28 10:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok simple .he takes you for granted . take time off from him .if he still likes you he'll come for you . if he doesn't he'll be your friend maybe
2006-11-28 10:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by desparate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't your bf so get one and make him jealous. so if he really wants u then he will tell u.
2006-11-28 10:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time and he'll come around if he want to...
Guys jus like to play had to get and when the chase is over wat next and u jus said....
2006-11-28 10:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋