and i am an man and that is not rite because we been together for 5 years
2006-11-28 09:56:31 · 28 answers · asked by saevon m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she cheated, it doesnt matter who it was with. you have to decide if you're willing to forgive her and trust her that she won't do it again.
2006-11-28 09:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are obviously two ways to go here: 1- you can dump her cheating aas like you would have if it had been a guy. 2- you can try to get hooked up with the 3 way. It depends on how you feel about it. Does it hurt you that she slept with a girl? Are you interested in having a threesome? If you answer these questions first, then you'll know what to do.
2006-11-28 18:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Agent69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in the first place she cheated on u with someone and u have 2 decide if ur going 2 stay with her, but on the other hand many guys would love a girl that doesnt mind having a threesome so think about it but in my opinion dump her and get a girl thats just gonna stick with u. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-28 18:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by i got drama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would try for a threesome.
It sounds like your gfriend was experimenting, and there's nothing wrong with that.
My gfriend of five years also experimented, and the result was a threesome with her best friend.
And if you've been together that long - forgiving her is the best option. She obviously loves you, or you wouldn't have been together so long.
-dh
2006-11-28 18:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating no matter if shes a girl and cheated with a girl. It still doesnt make it right. Its up to you if you want to forgive her and try and trust her again. But you better be careful she doesnt do it again.
2006-11-28 17:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong no matter with a man or woman... decide if you can forgive her for her mistakes and hope she won't do it again or dump her. Hard choice, good luck
2006-11-28 18:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by TaraKara3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her or have a 3some if u think it's hot! Me personally I think it's disgusting! But that's just me I guess! I do actually have some bi friends but as long as they don't try 2 hit on me...then I am all good! + they give me vodka & stuff so how could I break my friendship w/ them! That would be so stupid! NEWAYZ...ya do wat ever u want 2! Just think about God before u go & make the wrong decision o.k.?!
2006-11-28 18:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are hurt about it, 5years is a long time it should depend on if she regrets it or not, and if you can forgive her try, just long as you know she doesn't have a strong attraction for women. She may.
2006-11-28 18:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by TM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her if you enjoy being cheated on. You can always trust a cheater to cheat.
2006-11-28 17:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea and its probably not RIGHT either huh. your going to get a million "JOIN IN, or THREESOME" answers, but cheating is cheating, and I would have to question myself if she needs a womens touch more than mine. Then I would kick her a.s.s to the cheating curb.
2006-11-28 17:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to take advantage of the situation! DUH!
If that doesn't work out.....
I'm afraid this reminds me a little of Ross from Friends!
2006-11-28 18:02:01 · answer #11 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋