What can my wife and I do to boost our sex life?

Question

This is a serious question. Jokes nor insults will not be appreciated nor accepted. Respectively, my wife and I take several different prescription medications for medical conditions. With all prescription medications, there are side affects. Some can be dealt with on a daily basis, while others are less than acceptable. My wife and I have found that a couple of our respective medications have caused decreased libido, sexual response and erectile dysfunction. This has become quite unpleasant for both of us. We talked about it and I asked our doctor for a prescription for Cialis. Oh, it works, however there is no such thing as "lightning in a bottle". You have to be in a state of sexual arousal in order for the medication to work and it doesn't work right away. Sometimes, you don't want to go through a giant production number to make love to your significant other. What can my wife and I do to boost our sex life? Please help us. Thanking you in advance.

I have tried Enzyte, L-Arginine, horny goat weed, Viagra and even a drink in a blue bottle called Niagara, emblazoned with two rabbits having sex on the bottle cap. Supplements such as these have not worked for me and my wife. We have tried feeding each other fruits dipped in chocolate and that simply led to us having to go to the bathroom. There was too much fiber involved in that little session, I can assure you. We've tried sex toys, light bondage, role play and adult VHS tapes. None of that stuff has worked. We do enjoy foreplay and we're both very good at it. However we get all hot and bothered with the build-up of foreplay, get ready to make love to one another and a combination of things happen. I lose my erection and I can not ejaculate. I am also bipolar and a side affect of my medical condition, is that I am in a constant state of sexual arousal. Having ED and being horny all of the time doesn't mix well. I will just take a Cialis along with my meds and hope for the best.

Answer 1

You've noted that some of your medications are known to decrease libido and cause erectile dysfunction. I suppose the next step is for the two of you to schedule appointments with your respective doctors about the types of medications you're on. Do you still need to take these prescriptions?

Could some of your medications be having adverse reactions with other medications, possibly compounding your problem?

Is there an alternate prescription you could switch to that wouldn't have such negative effects on your love life?

You may also need to get your pharmicist involved in some of these questions, as they may be better versed in drug interaction than your doctor.

Barring the possibility of reducing the amount of prescriptions or changing to alternatives, you may have to look into diet and natural remedies that would hieghten your libido. Again, checking with your doctor and/or pharmacist to ensure there is no negative interaction with your current prescriptions.

Answer 2

Be patient, gentle, and have a lot of love and understanding on both your parts and lots of foreplay!
Set a romantic atmosphere by candles, romantic dinner, strawberries dipped in chocolate and soft romantic music.
Whip cream is really good licked off of each others body!
I understand that medicines affect your sex life cause my husband and I have some problems too. We are 59 & 60.
Try these things to get you in the mood and just have fun and don't stress yourselves out. You don't have to have intercourse everytime to make love. Just being together as one is sometimes enough.
Good luck and God bless.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

My husband and I HAD that problem. His prescriptions were causing erectile dysfunction. But we found out that sex isn't just about penetration (if you know what I mean). I agree about the products that take a giant production number to make love. My husband tried the pump, but that was a turn-off for me. By the time it started working for him, I was no longer in the mood. Good luck.

Answer 5

Hi, I hope this does not sound reduntant or obscene. My husband and I had issues before we split up. Once we tried pizza and wine on the beach, the romantic thing. (obviously in the summer or sprint), we use and still do use, sex toys, watch xrated movies, and have other couples. although you need to make sure you have a tremendously steady and trusting relationship for the last. But it seem to do the trick for us. good luck.

Answer 6

Im not a sex specialist but i know how it feels. Im in the same place. I find kissing and role playing fun and it takes the edge off. Try to laugh and youll find a wink and a smile will only help. GOOD LUCK YOU 2.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Get a little kinky. Have her wear some sheer black stockings and a garter belt, shom heels and a pair of handcufffs. The rest will come naturally, It's hard not to feel sexy when you are dressed like that, trust me I can hardly contain myself when I put on my heels and stockings.

Answer 9

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La disfunción eréctil es la incapacidad de lograr o mantener una erección satisfactoria para la duración de la relación sexual.
Puede aparecer a cualquier edad, desde la juventud hasta la vejez; para algunos hombres puede ser un problema ocasional mientras que para otros se convierte en un problema frecuente.

Answer 10

Sit down with your wife and calmly comunicate. You ask her what the problem is and then let her ask you what the problem is. Get it out in the open. It's either a problem or it's not! Very simple procedure!

HANK (Josh)