well on monday a gave him the composition he had asked for and left cause i wasnt feeling well then the next day my friend told me he had showed my paper all over the class room and trashed it said that i didnt wrong also used my name and talked like i was his enemy im gonna talk to him but what should i say?
2006-11-28 09:12:20 · 16 answers · asked by jocysoul 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Tell him that you would appreciate it if he didn't publicly humiliate you and that you are simply doing your work to the best of your ability. I'm assuming you are in high school, and high school teaches sometimes will try to intimidate students if confronted. Don't let him push you around, stand your ground and speak to school administrators if he continues to give you trouble. Any further actions that he takes in an effort to embarass you would constitute harassment and school officials need to step in. This is actually a serious matter and should be handled as such.
Good luck handling this. Just be confident in yourself and don't let him talk down to you.
2006-11-28 09:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Big Cack 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
By all means get confirmation from several other students in your class that all your friend has told you actually happened. Is your principal a person who has enough backbone to confront your teacher? Does your teacher have a reputation for treating students harshly without ever receiving censure himself?
If your teacher has been at it for decades, your administrator may not address this incident the way you hope. The responder who advised you to stay in the good graces of your teacher is probably giving you some of the best advice, although it can be galling to have to treat someone with respect who does not deserve it.
2006-11-28 09:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by 1 of 5 Rinkydinks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to this teacher and tell hem what you heard. If he blows you off, then,go to the Dept. Head and then to the Principal.
If the teacher did this, it is totally unprofessional and violates all kinds of ethics- especially those of privacy and confidentiality.
Have you told your parents or guardians about this? They may want to get involved. But, you should take the first step and talk to the teacher.
When you talk to him explain that you heard that he was using your paper as an example of poor workmanship. You are most upset with the fact that he was using your name in class and not giving you a chance to defend yourself.
I am hoping your friend is pulling your leg and may be trying to stir up trouble.
At the very least, you should at least go straight to the teacher. Then, go on from there if you don't get any satisfaction.
2006-11-28 09:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Malika 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a teaching assistant, I know that this stuff happens a lot. Often a teacher forgets that students from different classes talk to each other and that students like you can get their feelings hurt.
Tell your teacher, "I was really upset that you showed my paper as a bad example to the other class. In the future, could you please keep my work private?"
I hope I helped!
2006-11-28 09:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's called abuse. You must feel strong to confront the teacher before you go above his head. And you have a very strong sense of respect and good conduct, taht you would go to the person instead of behind his back right away.
That should make you more right than he is.
First, though, make sure you get confirmation from other classmates. I know you trust your friend, but you need to figure out what parts are supported by general consensus.
2006-11-28 09:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 07:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats messed up !!!! who is this "friend" of yours...she/he might be joking or lying. you better just confront him - go up to this teacher and be all "Okay my friend said you humiliated me with my paper while i wasnt in class, is this true?" n if he doubts it, ask (not all) but a lot of your other classmates that were in that class when it supositly happend...i feel bad for ya, hope u fix this!!
2006-11-28 09:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by heyy hoeee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that VERY hard to believe. You don't talk to him. If you really think this happened, then you and the friend that heard him actually say these things---need to go to the Principal's office.
2006-11-28 09:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the principal.. you will get more accomplished if you take a parent also...
That's not allowed in the professional world.. so why would it be allowed in a school setting.
2006-11-28 09:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by yo mama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing! In fact be extra nice to him because teachers have a way of making your life worse when you're a smart ***. Trust me, I've been in school for two decades now. If anything ask him if you can redo the assignment. You always want to be in the good graces of your teachers
2006-11-28 09:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋