I have liked this kid at my school for a long time. His name is Joe and in my opinion he is perfect. He is a true friend and I can trust him with anything! I give him hugs every day and I talk to him for at least 2 hrs a day! He always tells me that I am pretty and that we have to hang out all the time so we can become really tight. Sounds good right, well there is only one problem, he has a GF! He claimes that they are in love, but I just want to show him that he is missing something! He says that if they do break up, that I will be his first person. It is so hard cuz I like him so much! Lately I have been trying to make him feel guilty for not giving me a chance! Is that bad to make him feel guilty, but I also don't want him having pity on me. So should I stop trying to make him want me or just keep teasing. Some where I heard that guys like it when guys play hard to get. So tell me what you think I should do! (yes I am the same person who just asked a question about Dereck) Thanks.
2006-11-28 09:11:06 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably not your best bet. if you do that, he'll think you are manipulative, and conniving, and you probably aren't you just want him! totally understanding. you should just tell him how you feel ok! =)
2006-11-28 09:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he has good intentions with his girlfriend and he doesn't want to do her wrong. These are the same qualities you would look for in a man of your own. You shouldn't make him feel bad that you isn't giving you a chance because the more you push yourself on him, the more you will push him away. Also if he cheated on his girl, or just left her for you then how secure would you feel if you were dating him? Not to mention that you should respect the fact that he already has a girl and you wouldn't want another woman to be that close with your man, now would ya? What goes around, comes around... keep that in mind.
2006-11-28 17:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just be friends cause you never know what is going to happen in a year. he might think that you wouldd be perfect for him. and seriously, the main thing that guys want to have when dating is a good gf that has a good personalitly,. and if you keep on just being friends. then he might think well, you have a goo d personality, and I want to date you. good luck. other times some guys just want pretty gilrs but that sometimes isn't the case.
2006-11-28 17:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by sally b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, you really shouldn't try to break them up.
I know you like him, but if you like him that much, and he's a good friend, you want him to be happy, and if he's happy with this girl, there really is nothing you can do.
I suggest you wait, and if it doesn't work out between them, then make your move.
In the meantime, check out some other guys, there r plenty, lol, you might just find someone you like even more.
2006-11-28 17:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Roxanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him & his girlfriend be.
Continue being his buddy on the side.
If you come off like you want to break them up,
it just makes you look BAD.
Hang in there. Besides couple who start out as friends
have a better chance. That'd be YOU.
So, when or if they break up. You'll be the soulful friend
the goodlooking friend (hin,hint) and there you go!
2006-11-28 17:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by jillian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him your real feelings about him. What ever you do, don't say things to his GF that will make them break up b/c the blame will be on you. JUST BE CALM. try to act cute. that's what get me to like a girl
2006-11-28 17:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him that you cant be second choice....It's either now or never...I'm a guy if a girl put me on the spot like that i would totally go to her. GOOD LUCK (if u have any questions my email is sms1617@aim.com i'll give you my instant messenger but not on this answer.
2006-11-28 17:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just leave it alone. If you were his girlfriend and there was some girl doing the same thing to him as you how would you feel? What goes around comes around!
2006-11-28 17:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by shabuandshabu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too....just be friends with him and don't hangout anymore than normal...if he wants more with you then he will break up with his current gf and if he doesn't he wont. Don't get your hopes up...it seems like he's leading you on a bit. play it cool and keep your distance for awhile.
2006-11-28 17:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-28 17:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋