Theres this girl in who stares at me and i really liker her but when i try to talk to her i freeze up i really like her and she is really nice but i always get really nervous please help me im desprate!!
2006-11-28 09:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by # 1 edge head (Mr DEDEDE) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHAHA. men. tsk tsk. the nervous part. let me tell you a secret... girls get nervous to... i don't know maybe we handle it better.. that where you come in. "but Wendy how?" first off, if your desperate don't show it. some girls like the hard to get just as much as the guys do. just "be a friend" to her. make her laugh... (if she liked you back, she'll laugh.. even if its cheesy). girls like it when her guy makes them laugh. think about that. ALWAYS be YOURSELF! Gosh don't get me started on those fake men "the ladies want me bullshit" "i have this" "I'm that". its a turn off... but you should come up to her and say hey, I'm ___. that's a start. don't be nervous, BC shes already thinking "o man do i have crap on my teeth?" "does my breath stink" "do i look pretty right now" .
if this is at school sit with her at lunch. work... impress her (not to much). or neighborhood, introduce yourself.
ABOVE all, be yourself.
goodnight ladies and gentlemen, you've been great! I'm out!
2006-11-28 09:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehe, slow the roll man. just stay cool when u go to talk to her. Just walk up to her and start the conversation with a friendly "hey, how's it goin?" intorduce urself and just ask some questions u know to get to know her.
2006-11-28 09:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by metal_dude06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get nervous...she is probably nervous too...well...if you cant control the nervousnous dont worry about it...woman find it sexy and really cute when a guy gets nervous around us it shows us he is really into us. You will take control of the situation once you start a conversation.
2006-11-28 09:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go for it man. let it all out but dont make it seem like your desperate, women dont exactly like that. ya sure maybe they tihnk its cute and funny but stil, go for it. dont sweat and stuff because that isnt exactly going to help you either. just be cool and relaxed. good luck
2006-11-29 14:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by i love ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just relax and be yourself. i do know where your coming from though because i have trouble talking to people in general, but once you get started it will get easier for you and it will just get to where it is natural. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU.
2006-11-28 09:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice in front of a mirror if u like her so much then just ask her on a date
2006-11-28 09:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by inluvwitme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u freeze are u afraid of her?talk to her homie
2006-11-28 09:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 her and imagine one of your guy friends....thats what i do with girls...it works
2006-11-28 09:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋