My boyfriend wants me to take steroids because he's obsessed with women bodybuilders. I actually took a light steroid often referred to as "deca" for 7 weeks, and on the 7th week, I noticed that my voice got deeper than usual, which scared me. Now, he wants me to take it again starting in January and I dont want to! He claims he only gets sexual satisfaction from women with muscles....what should I do?
2006-11-28 08:55:00 · 29 answers · asked by daniellem230 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Anyone who would put their sick desires above your health isn't worth the trouble. If he is insistent about you taking steroids, its time to trade him in for someone with a working brain. Your doctor can give you all the information you need on the destructive effects of steroids, and why you should NOT take them unless medically necessary. Noone is worth destroying your health for, cut him loose.
2006-11-28 09:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Enigma®Ragnarökin' 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no and if he keeps bothing you keep saying no over and over. Let him know that you're not weak and will not give in to him. If this is making you feel uncomfortable, break up with him and call the police.
They made your voice get deeper because they have hormones in them that increase your ability to produce muslce and endurance and all the other things that pro athleates need to suceed. However, THEY ARE ILLIGAL and you could get arrested for taking them.
You should never do anything you are uncomfortable with or just want to do. It's wrong. If he really wants you to have more muscle, and you're willing to consider a llegal way of pleasing him, just do a simple work out routine a few times a week.
2006-11-28 17:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Danielle,
If you noticed that your voice got deeper, stop taking the steroids. You could start being more manly than that. If your boyfriend wants you to take steroids, you have to tell him that you don't want to. Not only that, you have to tell him that in a firm, clear voice. Also, if your boyfriend wants a women with muscles, then, why don't you just start body building? It's a lot healthier than steroids. If none of this works, dump him. Your boyfriend doesn't care about you if he wants you to take drugs.
2006-11-28 17:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley V 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to forget it or he can forget about you. I'm sick of hearing about how men are pushing their gf's into doing things against their will for the sake of looking a certain way. You don't have to take this crap from any man, I'm sure you could do much better. This is only going to become a destructive, controlling relationship if you agree. I would get the hell out of there whilst you still have the chance. Take care : )
2006-11-28 17:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely move on. I'm sorry but if he's obsessed with something that you are not...then he should go find what it is he wants, not try to make you something or someone else.
You are who you are....and you are not a bodybuilder.
Also, most bodybuilders now don't use steroids anymore either...especially if they are competing..it's tons of weight lifting and eating!
2006-11-28 18:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Brandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sarcastic answer is that you should tell him that you'll only do it if he'll agree to take female hormones, because guys with boobs turn you on...
My serious answer is that you should just dump this guy. He obviously doesn't love you for who you are and isn't interested in your health. It seems he only wants to change you into the object of his fantasies...
If you truly love him and don't want to lose him, then draw your "line in the sand". Tell him you absolutely won't do it, but if he likes muscles on a girl, then you'll work out with him at a gym or something. I hope all this helps...
2006-11-28 17:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyBoo71 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps your boyfriend wants you to have 'clitorial hypertrophy.'
Where your "little man in the boat" grows to about the size of a thumb? This is common when taking steroids in women, along with other suppliments. Your decision is this: is it worth it to you?
http://search.yahoo.com/search?p=clitorial+hypertrophy&sp=1&fr2=sp-top&fr=yfp-t-501&toggle=1&cop=mss&ei=UTF-8&ei=UTF-8&SpellState=n-4224163257_q-8v7Y3q0sHuRLzVYM%2Fjm8vAAAAA%40%40
2006-11-28 17:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may hurt u to hear this but u should leave him, if he doesnt like u for who u are then he doesnt deserve u and anyways women with muscles doesnt look right. and u may damage ur body taking the steriods as well. im sure 99.9% of men wouldn't want women having muscles! try to talk to him that u dont want to take them but if he keeps forcing you than u should really leave him..!
2006-11-28 17:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't take them. If you really want muscles then do weight lifting not steroids.
2006-11-28 16:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to do anything to your body to make another person happy.....and if you did want to do it why not work out with him and make it a workout bonding thing instead of putting chemicals in your body that could harm you just to make someone else happy if you had the muscles he wants you to have would it be what you wanted also
2006-11-28 17:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by gemini_girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋