Well, I terribly miss my ex, and it stinks really bad. But, I don't know how to win him back.
He has a gf right now, and I wouldn't want to break them up, but I love him so much.
Should I just wait until they break up and start talking, or if you have any ideas of getting him interested, can you share them?
Much appreciated,
Maddi
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2006-11-28 08:47:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, that's just part of life. I know you'll hate this advice, but it's the best possible, I promise: Try your best not to worry about it.
It's normal to feel hurt. But realize that someday you'll have a great man and this situation will be NO BIG DEAL. I know that might be hard to imagine now.
I think you should call up your girlfriends and go watch a movie. Do something fun to forget about it and the hurt will fade before you know it.
2006-11-28 08:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by monkeyandmolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I suggest you do nothing. Attempts to "win" your ex back will likely only further increase the distance between you. Relationships work when both people are in a similar place at similar time. Clearly, your ex is not in that place. There are games you can play that may work in the short run, but they will not build a successful relationship.
If you and your ex do get back together in a successful, long-term relationship, it will be after you have both grown and matured as people - probably after a couple of years. I know it's not what you want to here, but time really does heal all wounds. Give it time, and keep your eye open for the next guy. As strongly as you feel for your ex now, he is only one of the many relationships you will have in your life. Time and a different boyfriend will help ease your current longing tremendously.
2006-11-28 16:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by joese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get some one back is to have a good and rewarding life. They will see you as successful and they will always wonder if leaving you was a bad decision. People eat that s**t up. Go out and meet a nice guy who likes you as much as you like him. Time heals. I still love my ex but after the initial heart break I am glad it is over because it would never work. These types never work with any one. They will move on to the next relationship just as easily. You got lucky.
2006-11-28 16:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dhaircutta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling it does stink really bad BUT do not do anything. if he will become interested in u again it will be just because. you cant do anything to change his mind. do NOT wait for him. you need to get on with your life, like he did with his. he should be feeling how can he win u back NOT vice versa especially dealing with guys. if you both are meant to be it will happen later and naturally. if you try to do something if may be a turn off to him and may make u seem like the "psycho ex girlfriend." i wouldnt give him any attention at all, all it will do is feed his ego and make his current girlfriend feel like shes got such a great catch.
2006-11-28 16:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by MaryLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety u should just forget about him there are plently of fish in the water and if he really loved u then he wouldnt make u cry and think about it do u really think that ur going to spend the rest of ur life with him relax there is someone else in the world for u he just not the one ull find the right guy promise xoxoxoxoxoxox get better soon!!!! and relax<3<3<3<3
2006-11-28 16:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gossip Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sometimes there is a reason for the word ex if they are an ex they are an ex for a reason, if he is in a new relationship u shoud try and get out there and date if he sees u are hung up on him he will be like oh i can do whatever and she will still want me and **** like that if u show that u are mature and can move on then maybe he will get a second thought and be like maybe i want her back. just show him that he lost something great!!!! most guys feel stupid for loosing a great girl. be patient patience is a virtue!!!
2006-11-28 16:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I don't want to be rude but "HE ALREADY HAS ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND" Why would you want to be with a guy who would prefer any other girl before you. But if your desperate which is pathetic then get another man that may make him jealous if he cares or show up at his house with nothing on but a coat and plea your case while having wild sex if that doesn't work at least one of you is happy.
2006-11-28 17:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by ~InEvItAbLe~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a new gf, he has obviously moved on. You don't want to make yourself seem desperate, so you should find someone else as well. It may hurt at first, but you may realize that your taste has changed as well, and you may fall in love with someone else. If you were meant to be with him, you will be. Just don't dwell on it. Good Luck.
2006-11-28 16:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't socially express your feelings for him yet... but keep talking to him. Let him know you're still there as a friend. If things don't work out between his new girlfriend, it won't be as awkward having been his friend before when you start hinting on...
2006-11-28 16:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by live*laugh*love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if he is dating someone else, he doesn't want to be with you. Take some time to just be by yourself while you are healing from the break up. When you feel ready to start seeing other people, they will come along. Give yourself time to heal. Find someone who wants to be with you when you are ready to date again. Don't waste your time trying to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
2006-11-28 16:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋