Is it mean of me to have said that I wouldn't go out with him, but would with his friend when he asked me out?? He really likes me but I really like his friend. The first few times he asked me out I politely said no, but this last time I said (See above) Was that mean?? He and I are good friends still but he still likes me. Why can't he take a hint?? Was it mean to say that??
Should he had given up?? He's still trying, but now I have started dating his friend.(he don't know) Should he stop??
I already have done the date 1 guy and his friend thing. Neither found out til I broke up with them both.
2006-11-28 08:42:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I would tell him that ur dateing his friend. And if he takes it bad and gets all mean he didnt really like u htat much/ But if hes ok with it and still likes you he really means it. If you can I would try it out with him sometime because you never know some people ture out to be sole mates! Its happaned to me before I didnt really like a guy but he liked me and i dated his friend and when we broke up i tried it with him and it turned out to be great! I didnt know his other side yet and i wanted to see it. Were still dating today. 4 years! You can try if you would like to get to know him better or tell him u jsut want to be friends. My answer prolly wont help but... Good Luck!
2006-11-28 08:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by baby_girl_forever89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess... You're still in high school? You need to grow up and realize your actions effect other people. You are coming between two friends for a relationship that probably won't make it. And you know it's not right or you would bring this relationship out in the open instead of sneaking around. You can't treat people like this and not expect it to come back and bite you in the butt. How would you like it if you asked someone out and they said no but I would like to date your friend? I don't think you would. Do you realize that your putting everyone in a bad position? Sneaking around behind someones back is not very nice. Best to find someone else and leave this mess behind.
2006-11-28 17:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bookworm4124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say immature others say you did nothing wrong. Whether you were right or wrong should not matter. You are your own person and if you have feelings for someone you should have no regrets on acting on those feelings as long as you are not committed to anyone. If you tell someone your not interested, then you have that right, however it came out is your personality and you should not feel ashamed because of it. You should be happy with the decisions that you have made. Good Luck!
2006-11-28 16:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by jman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabey that was mean but if he is being stubborn and won't take a no for an answer, then you have a right to say whatever you'd like to get him to leave you alone. Besides, guys need to hear stuff they don't want to, so they can learn to let words roll off. Words can hurt but you can become stronger so that they have less of an effect on you personaly.
2006-11-28 16:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bitchy. Not mean. Just highly immature. "No but I would date your friend..??" wtf...thats evil. That's kicking someone when they're down. Hey I'm not only going to make you bleed, here's some salt...grow up and then start dating.
2006-11-28 16:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** to me is meaning beautiful intelligence talented courageous horny or hateful depending on the moods I'm in. y meaning all above w/out being so ruling and deceitful with him he is just hating because you gave him the wrong impression. While we are young we tend to make mistakes that sometimes we or they could not get over the situations but your are wrong when it comes down to it because you could of been honest. so in my opinion of the word *****-y you just showed that you are horny and hateful and let me add courageous for not hot being honest
2006-11-28 17:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by birdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say "sorry you are a great guy who deserves a nice girl but I have feelings for someone else, I'm sorry if that upsets you but I am being honest with you"
2006-11-28 16:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I don't think it's mean, it's the way of life. But sucks to be him I guess. He'll get over it eventually.
2006-11-28 16:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋