I am an East Indian male, professional, attractive. I consider myself a renaissance man. When I date I usually seem to attract only caucasian women. I am however attracted to african american women too, but none of them (the educated, attractive ones) seem to date outside their race. I am not generalizing but I have found very few beautiful black women with men of other races. It's like "we've gotta support the brothas" kind of attitude. Well, as I see it the black men certainly don't reciprocate! Why is this behavior so common?
2006-11-28 08:41:03 · 6 answers · asked by Existentialist_Guru 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone stop bashing him, what he is saying holds some truth.
I think black women typically do not date outside of their race because other races of men are not viewed as masculine in the black community. When some black women think of a white guy they have the stereotypical view of a dorky guy in suspenders and thick glasses that would rather do your taxes than have sex. Black women want to get their back put out by Rahsheed in his Timbaland boots. Another reason is that often when a black woman is seen dating outside of her race she is viewed as being easy, especially by other black people, or as being a sell out. When I was 19, I was called an Aunt Jemima B*tch by a black guy when I went to a night club with my white boyfriend.
Finally the last thing that I can tell you because you said that you are Indian, a lot of Black women view foreign men as controlling. Many black women see foreign men as very chivalrous and free with their money but also with abusive tendencies.
Hope that does it for you.
2006-11-29 08:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar Plum Fairy 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Well, there are plenty of beautiful Black women from other nationalities that you may want to consider and not just African Americans. Who knows, you might even relate to us better since we're both presumably first generations here ;) Email me!
2006-11-29 19:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
hmmm maybe they are comfortable dating their own race there are many people like that not just black women
2006-11-28 08:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Suriyah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so not true..i am black..and i will go where LOVE is
2006-11-28 08:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
maybe the black men you know don't reciprocate....but there are tons of black men that are there for their women.
2006-11-28 08:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 6⤋
because you have a small ding a ling
2006-11-28 08:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 11⤋