I met a guy on AFF an adult site at a time in my life when I was feeling bitter and unloved, and board. We met he was great and after a few romps he stop calling as much. Considering where we met I was not surprised, but he and I became great friends o we talked about everything funny things good times over the phone and email was erotic and poetic at the least & everytime we meet we have a wonderful time together. He did not want to have a sexual thing anymore but thought should just be friends, but the attraction and chemistry was the bomb! Now he says he does not want a committment which I never asked for I just enjoyed him as a person I know I sent signs but I think I felt him too. Now he says he wants to be just associates only & grandfather me out of his life and maybe speak on the phone once a month to cut down the frustration! He says he does not need the distraction in his life at this time. Im hurt. He says he is going to sufficate any emotions so we will move on soon. Im hur
2006-11-28 08:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by tressroy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like it was just bad timing... and the fact of how and where you guys met. Most of the time when someone knows and agrees to just a sexual thing then they seperate their emotions. When they get their emotions involved it causes great confusion. And sometimes if you are not at a point in your life where you can "sort" out your emotions then you tend to try to dismiss them and move on with your life. Sadly enough I do not think there is anything you can do except be more careful where you choose to meet the next guy, perhaps somewhere a little more reputable. Good luck :)
2006-11-28 08:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a "romp"?
sounds really fun
look, well, if you and he like each other, in any way thats god, then its good. If you want more from people at some point, you have to be real with em, tell em your phone number, where you live, email address , things like that. And identify yourself too, when people are hiding it makes me wonder why they hide. Are they ashamed of themselves, afraid of past things, must be something or they wouldn't hide. Also, real people say what they want. Pleasant distractions can be fun, potential is fun too. Gotta see some real trust to give real trust I think. Dancing is fun too though. I have a lot to give. It isn't free though.
2006-11-28 16:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u a guy?
it looks like it was bad timing for both of u guys
maybe u can amend but most likely not
just let it be
he will come back trust me
2006-11-28 16:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time on someone like that it is not worth it. Your better off!!
2006-11-28 16:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take his advice. Leave him be.
2006-11-28 16:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋