My bf and i have been together for a year and a half. we are so much in love with each other, i'm pretty sure of that, and we're getting serious. The problem is, he has this friend, a girl, he's with her all the time. i don't think anything could happen between them, she's not his type at all, but i'm scared that him being with her all that time, that he might start thinking about her. Plus i get extremely jealous when i see them together, btw, our friends don't know we're together, we don't want to mess it up, we're moving so well. Help please
2006-11-28 08:38:50 · 5 answers · asked by Twinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really want to keep him dont act jealous itll just mess things up. if you say thing are going as well as your saying things will just fall into place.but if she touches him in any of the wrong spot and your so called bf doese something back. dump him
2006-11-28 08:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by asiandude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be together for a year and a half and not let your friends know? That's what is gonna screw it up right there. She hangiung out with your man and him the same and the whole time she's thinking that he's single. If ya'll are happy how is letting your friends know that you are together going to screw things up? Are you ashamed? You can't have a secrective realtionship and get jealous because some girl has no clue he taken and hangs out with him. I'd get the relationship out of the closet and then worry about the girl if the problem is still there.
2006-11-28 16:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
Instead of finding help from others leave that chapter forever, help those who are constantly craving of your love. i.e. your parents.
If you think to reduce your jealousy and make other jealous by you than forget your friend for a while. Don't respond him properly, ignore him.
I think this is only way of getting your friend back to you....What you tink what will be the result ? after some weeks or mounth.
Guess What..?
Regards,
Dharmesh.
2006-11-30 11:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by dharmesh_sun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First:
Is he doing anything to reassure and soothe your fears or is he making the situation worse (his actions/his words etc.)?
Second:
Have you been jealous previously? If so you need to confront this insecurity head on. Ask yourself why he would leave you for another woman, then work on correcting those things.
2006-11-28 16:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray.
2006-11-28 16:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by nunyabiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋