This random girl i met at a club appeared really interested in me on the night, she asked me to dance, and we talked for 2 hours. I msg a couple of days later to see if she wanted to watch a movie or grab a coffee and she replies saying' umm ok...i wouldn't mind hanging out'. I took this as a bad sign, so i told her i'll talk to her some other time if she's too busy, and that maybe we should just leave things. She replies saying with a 'hehe' and that friday is good for her to meet. Turns out that i ended up going on a coffee, and movie date with her, and she replies later by msg saying she had fun. I ask to meet again, but she said she can't see me until a month's time cos she's going overseas, but that she'll keep in touch with me online.
2006-11-28 08:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes its a kind of test girls use to see how far the guy is willing to go for them. Can you imagine what the world would be like if we all gave in quickly? guys like it too but not for too long, then it gets annoying.
2006-11-28 08:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Enriques 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. Could be that she's just busy and not really interested in starting something that ay or may not go anywhere. Don't confuse hard to get with hard to want.
2006-11-28 08:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the girl. Maybe she was just messing with you the time the said 'sounds good to me'. And, if she's going over seas, she obviously can't see you. At least you'll be staying in touch...
2006-11-28 08:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...as far as the "hard 2 get" part....she isn't cuz obviously she agreed to hang out with you and apparently she also had fun
correct me if I'm wrong but I think you are already IN buddy, whether she'd wanted you to be or not....be patient...besides you gotta see women and men as "Try-Outs" sometimes they complete you and sometimes they don't...there is always an answer to 'love' but only you can know it...good luck, and coming from a girl who is 19 years old and only has had 2 boyfriends all of her life (i'm with my 2nd now)...I am pretty Hard to get...friend are by far much more fun and enjoyable...trust me....
2006-11-28 08:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. By acting uninterested, she hides her desperation.
2006-11-28 08:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's normal. girls just want to see if you really want them
2006-11-28 08:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by mindi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋