I have two wonderful female cats, well one of them is wonderful, the other one isn't the brightest bulb on the tree, but she's cute. I have a friend who has six kittens. Two of the kittens are the same color as the two I have. I'm hoping one is male. Should I get them a brother for christmas?
2006-11-28 08:23:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
He wont't be a brother. More of a third for the threesome. I say bring him into this beautiful situation and let him live a happy and fulfilled life.
2006-11-28 08:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by motorcitysmadman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how long have the two girls been together? If it isn't very long, then maybe introduce another kitten, also it depends on the ages. If they are older and you bring a kitten into the mix, they may react better to it than if they are younger, as they may want to nurture it. If they have been together for many years, sometimes introducing a new cat into the family will upset the dynamic. I know that with my two, if i brought a third cat into the equation they would freak out and it would ruin their relationship. You don't want that new cat to be an outsider, because they form very strong bonds and often spend time together when you are out of the house. Do your cats get along well with other animals or people? eg when someone they don't know comes into the house? If they act fearful then perhaps it is not a good idea to bring in a new cat. Good luck with your decision!
2006-11-28 20:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Arianrod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male cats are great. I have had 2 male cats (one passed, one current) and currently also have a female. My male is so much more affectionate, adventurous, and silly. I would love to have another one, but I had to take into consideration a couple of things and after looking the list over, realized (to my dismay) that I wouldn't be able to bring a 3rd kitten into my home.
(A) Look at your financial situation. Make sure that you are set to be able to take care of a 3rd kitten. You probably wouldn't notice too much of an increase in $ spent on food, toys, litter, etc. But what about vet visits? What if they get sick one right after the other? Will you be able to afford it?
(B) How much time are you able to give your current 2 cats? Are you able to play with them and give them a lot of attention as is? (This is different from them playing with each other or playing around the house while you're in the vicinity.) 3 cats will require a lot of attention. I currently have 2 people for 2 cats and we play with them all night long but yet they seem to still crave more.
(C) Do you have enough space where you're living?
(D) It can sometimes take a few months before new cats will get along with each other. Sometimes they may never like each other. Or there is the possibility that they will be able to "stand" each other. So what happens if they don't get along?
If after taking that all into consideration and you're able to give another kitty a home, then GO FOR IT!!!! =D Cats are truly a joy to have and entertaining to watch. Just please get the male fixed as not to add to the already growing overpopulation of cats!
2006-11-28 17:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by bosnjgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cats are not pack animals, they don't particularly enjoy being with others of their kind. The two you have are used to each other, why introduce a stranger in the mix? Also, if the ones you have are adults they probably won't appreciate having a new kitten around - kittens are too high energy for adult cats. I would just leave it like it is.
2006-11-28 19:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by hellokittyangel1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about the Christmas present that stays in the box in the closet (which the kitten won't) or the one you recycle to someone else in Xmas of 2007!
Seriously the gals will hate the kitten immediately and he will bug them to death with his constant attentions and wanting to play with them. And that's life - my brother didn't like me at all when I came into his peaceful, only-child world and as adults we became very much soul-mates and important to one another.
Male cats are really neat and if you want one it is your decision, not the cats. Give the little guy a home!
2006-11-28 17:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by old cat lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They typically don't handle new introductions very well. Sometimes it can take a year or more for cats to get used to a new one. Keep in mind that you may have to deal with fighting and hissing for a long time before they get used to it.
2006-11-28 16:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do, please get it fixed! I have three cats myself and love them dearly. However, with as many cats and kittens are at the shelters, I would make sure that I didn't bring any more into the world.
2006-11-28 16:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Katslookup - a Fostering Fool! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't get another cat. But, you sound like your mind is made up on this already, so if you do, then give her a $100 vet certificate to get her cat fixed.
2006-11-28 16:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can....... if you have enough love for all three of them. (sounds like you do :))
but i think you might want to have the male cat fixed.
you might not be able to find good homes for another litter if one of your female cats has kittens. incest is gross, but cats probably don't know the difference.
2006-11-28 16:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by bad_ambassador 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u should they will be happy and the best thing about it is that the male cat will be to little to mate and by the time he can the feamle cats will not beable to eat
2006-11-28 16:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kaylee M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋