I have this big crush on a girl in my school, and weirdly I fantasize about marrying her later in life. Is this impulse just a temporary adolescent thing or is it a true affection? I don't know much about her nor did I ever talk to her.
2006-11-28 08:17:56 · 14 answers · asked by luke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had this sort of crush for about 4 years now.
2006-11-28 08:24:18 · update #1
well if your attracted to her then ask her out!! you never know if you really like her if you don't try to learn more about her. bring up some conversation that you might think you guys might have in common and talk about it and then ask her for a coffee or something.
2006-11-28 08:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Shookoolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply think she's the hottest girl in school and find her attractive, but it doesn't mean you'd like her personality once you got to know her. Oh man .. been there .. done that ... didn't try to break the ice and maybe missed out on the great T-shirt.
Say "hi, I'm _______" and take it from there and be open for the rejection that may or may not happen. You'll never know if you don't at least try to get to know her.
2006-11-28 16:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by thellord_thighgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not weird that you fantasize about marrying someone but I don't think that you actually like her because if you did you wouldn't ask if it's an adolescent thing.
You will know when you're in love(dream of her every night, thinking of her every second, not wanting to be away from her, that's true love).
2006-11-28 16:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a temporary adolescent thing. The best thing would be to ask her out. Either way it works - if she says no, that's that. If she says yes, you'll go out for a while and then it'll end. Same either way.
2006-11-28 16:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by theanswernator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just a temporary adolescent thing we teenagers have to go through. Is she pretty? That might be why. Good luck!
2006-11-28 16:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's partly you liking this girl and partly you fantasizing about living in an adult world. You are being idealistic and this is a normal phase that you'll go through. Around this age you'll be "in love with being in love" and have fantasies about acting in an adult world because both are new and exciting concepts.
2006-11-28 16:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Rabeka♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question, how old are you? If you're old enough to start looking for a wife, then go for it!!!!! See what she's like, make sure she would be a good wife. And then be really sweet to her and then ya'll could become friends and if she feels the same way about you, ask her out.
If you're not old enough to look for a wife, you can become good friends with her somehow (that's up to you), and then when you get older maybe you could start dating.
Hope I helped!!!!
2006-11-28 16:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by nunyabiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just really infatuated with her. I almost think it's kind-of strange that a guy would share that information.
It's pretty odd actrually.
But, I think you have true affections for her if you want to marry her.
Good Luck!
Maddi
2006-11-28 16:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by M A D D i K i N S ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude thats normal, when i like a girl very storngly i have impulses liek that to, i fantasize it is normal man,
cus instinctively we want to find a life partner. and we visualize our selves with people.
2006-11-28 16:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
temporary thing if you know nothing about her then just get to know her and you could end up liking her more or hating her.
2006-11-28 16:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by joke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋