This dude likes me.I like someone else.The dude I dont like asked me to go on a date and so did the dude I do like.
2006-11-28 08:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by carrie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with the guy you like and tell the other guy in a polite way, no thank you.
2006-11-28 08:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you must be the type that doesn't like to hurt others feelings, which is great, but don't short change yourself by not going out with the guy that you actually like. True the other will have hurt feelings but I'm sure they'd be more than hurt if he was to find out that you were wondering what your crush is doing while you are out together with him. On the other hand, don't diss the other guy because he might be the guy you are most compatible with and have more fun with. You might like him if you get to know him. Life is too short, make the most of each day and have fun. There is no rule saying you cannot allow more than one guy to take you out on a date. I think this works best, because you get to hang out with both and then you can decide who is the better match for you. Neither has to be the wiser of the other or you can spill the beans about them to each other, after all it's just a date and nobody is doing any committing. All the best.
2006-11-28 08:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty obvious really. Tell the one you are not interested in that you are flattered and that you value them as a person and as a friend but that you are not interested in them romantically, and then go out on the date with the one you do like and just be yourself. Have a great time and don't feel guilty. You are only responsible for your own feelings and if the other one (the one you don't like) is any kind of man he will understand with time and in the end appreciate your honesty.
2006-11-28 08:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl go out with the dude u like and tell the dude u dont like that ur just no into him in that sort of way
2006-11-28 08:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by mz.honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the *dude* who likes you he will appreciate you more for sure! Well, as for the guy YOU like...he might just be happy!
2006-11-28 08:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh. tell the dude you don't like that you already have plans. then tell the dude you do like that you'd go.
2006-11-28 08:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by phantasmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the guy that you like or go with both just for 1 date and then decide.
2006-11-28 08:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one you like, dont give the one you dont like false hope
2006-11-28 08:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by downwitclown@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy follow your heart
2006-11-28 08:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by brett l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thunk its clear! prefer who u like !
2006-11-28 08:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋