So my mother in law is crazy I've decided. She told my mother that Im a whore at MY WEDDING. She also said that I got myself pregnant to trap her son. Which is stupid because my husband and I were together for 5 1/2 years before we got married. We did get married quickly because I got preggo and we wanted to be married before our son was born. But we had always planned on getting married. We'd been engaged for 3 years prior to getting preggo. She showed up to the birth of my son DRUNK! and today when i went to see my sister in law who being induced today and losing her baby because her water broke too early and there is nothing the doctors can do to save it, she wouldnt let me see her. I dont know if its just me, im sure its not, but id like some feedback. I feel like my MONSTER in law is crazy!! Is it ever going to change or is she always going to be crazy?
2006-11-28 08:11:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
by the way. my husband thinks she is crazy as well. he didnt grow up with her. she pretty much left him when he was only 6 months old. his parents divorced and she took the girl and his dad took him. so their relationship is always a struggle. but its his mother..so we deal with it...
2006-11-28 08:19:51 · update #1
everyone has mother in laws from hell its not just you your mother in law is a freak i think u should lay it down on her let her know whose a whore its definately not right for her to be calling you a whore the day of your wedding if i was u that woman would not b alive today just wait when her @$$ gets really old and needs help from you ignore her as long as you know whats the truth they all believe their sons are little angels who are trapped by women which is not true because u did not get pregnant by urself she needs to be educated and she not letting you see your sister in law is weird u should tell your husband and tell him she better stop messing with you. your mom should of slapped her when she said that on your wedding day. its a time of happiness that woman should at least be happy her son found someone a partner not criticizing you and judging you ! Best of Luck! :)
2006-11-28 08:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry that you have a ***** for a mother in law, she will probably always be a crazy cow! I hope that you are able to sort out this horrid situation that you are stuck in the middle of. I think she is jealous of you for some reason and you have taken her little boy away from her- but really she hasnt she has gained a daughter in law! maybe one day she will see that you are a nice person.
I dont have a mother in law from hell - shes a really nice person to know! we laugh and joke about things together!
2006-11-28 08:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. i'm sorry. truly. i'm actually sitting right here with my jaw dropped. She sounds terrible! How does your husband experience about the way she treats you and your spouse and children? Has he talked to her about it? it will be best for him to take the nice and cozy temperature because he's blood. perchance he can get to the bottom of it. If there's no underlying reason that she treats you this way, i'm no longer constructive what you are able to do. you may want to attempt being as effective as accessible and invite her to all styles of relations activities or your youngster's activities at the same time as they arrive round. perchance she acts this way because she feels exceeded over? i recognize my mom is quiet-spoken so she will be able to no longer communicate up if her emotions are harm, perchance your mom-in-regulation has similarities in that she's purely exhibiting her discomfort through the way she's appearing? i'm truly at a loss right here. I nonetheless imagine it will be best on your husband, or both of you jointly, to sit and communicate issues out which include her to make constructive there's no longer something making her act this way. She received't also note that you and your spouse and children are taking offense. so a approaches because the cardboard that examine "i'm hoping both of you...", perchance she's getting alzheimers? I really wish she does no longer exclude someone on objective. relations is relations no count number what. i truly wish issues workout recurring for the finest. And sturdy success and congratulations on your 2d equipment of delight! God bless.
2016-10-07 22:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother in law is a total wack job and will never change. What does your husband say about this? I'm sure he can't possibly defend her.
PS - I hope your mother slapped her upside the head at your wedding.
2006-11-28 08:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a catholic apostolate called Marriage Enrichment Encounter. I think you and your spouse should go there. The weekend there works miracles, nothing short of that. I've been there before. It's the miracle cure for trouble marriage and social relationships.
www.diocesephoenix.org/familylife/marriage_encounter.htm
2006-11-28 08:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by anelvis_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically the bottom line is youre going to have to learn to live with it to preserve the family peace. Ive had to learn this after 27 yrs of pure hell with my mil. They do this primarily because we arent good enough for their dear son or daughter.My Aunt who was at our wedding just met my mil and came to me and told me to run like hell and never look back. Of course I didnt listen and there hasnt been a day in the last 27 yrs I havent prayed for her to move on, like to another world. When we were first married and living in Denver and mil in Cleveland, she would call several times a day to make sure I didnt kill her daughter and to try to convince her to leave me for someone better. I just came out of pro-football due to injury. Phone bills for several yrs were over 700.00 a month. She had to be present when my daughters were born and then the phone calls started again to make sure I didnt kill them. They had to go along with us on vacations wherever we went, although she has 6 other kids. Now she lives with us due to 2 severe strokes about 6yrs ago. She has driven my oldest out of the house and is working on my youngest. We have to haul her everywhere we go and she makes sure she walks between us so I wont leave her behind. We have to schedule vacations around her when she goes back to Cleveland to visit, and my wife has to check in with her often while shes up there. When shes here we have to tell her if we go to the store, like good children or she gets mad. I left my parents for Viet Nam to get out from under this crap 34 yrs ago. And this nightmare goes on and on but if I say something I get the "but its my mom" crap so I just live with it and have increased my prayers to 10 times a day that something happens soon, So I feel for you and wish you all the luck in the world dealing with this
2006-11-28 08:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably she is the type of a mother that thinks nobody is good enough for her son,and believe me she won't change.just go on with your life ,don't listen to her and be happy.
2006-11-28 08:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people have that
Mothers just aren't ready to let their son go all of the time
you might learn that when your son gets married
although i hope you guys can work out your problem
2006-11-28 08:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope shes CRAZY and very cruel and i feel for you my bfs mum is a bit like that i dread the day we marry.
2006-11-28 08:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very unstable and immature.
I wouldn't take it personally. I don't think she will ever change, just try to keep your distance.
2006-11-28 11:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋