My boyfriend (Justin) and i have been dating for over 6 months and he is really jelous over the littlest things...he just started acting like this...and he had a dream about french kissing his ex (him and his ex dated on and off for about 4 years) should i be mad or is it nothing......i need help
~Cassie
2006-11-28 08:05:39 · 30 answers · asked by rkk_24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes just tryingt to get u jelous thats all just tell him to grow up
2006-11-28 08:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't be mad over a dream; people can't help what they dream. But if he is as jealous as you say he is, you may have a problem on your hands and may want to think about whether or not you want to stay in this relationship.
2006-11-28 16:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by beattyb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been wiht my bf for 2 years. he had a dream abotu doing anal with an asian and had a wet dream (he used to tell me he always wanted to date an asian when he was younger) lol i was upset for a while but wasnt mad at him. but it doesnt mean anything. its just a dream. dreams are unconcious. im sure he feels guilty having that dream. dreams are really thing that we want that we cant have. fulfilling a fantasy that really no longer exists. (liek having a dream abotu having sex wiht your boss. you know you cant and u end up having freams about it) you soudlnt get upset over it. but 4 years is a long time and if he broke up with her and started dating you a few weeks afterwards then he may still have some feelings (especially of shes the one that broke up) but talk to him abotu how he feels abotu his ex. talk to him if he has cheated. and talk to him why he's so jealous abotu everything. he shoudl be honest with you if he really loves you. he told you abotu his dream and he knew it would upset you.i think he felt bad for having that sort of dream. just sit down and talk with eachother.
2006-11-28 16:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. this is the OBVIOUS sign of a guilty concious. When someone else in the relationship all of a sudden becomes possessive or jealous for NO reason, they've done something they regret. You need to confront him about it. Ask him why he is treating you like this all of a sudden and ask him if he's done anything you wouldnt like. People dont just BECOME jealous for no reason, there are other emotions involved. Usually guilt!
2006-11-28 16:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are dreams... Sometimes they tell us what we want unconsciously, sometimes they let go of those memories and they come to us in our dreams, sometimes they are our minds working through problems we don't know about yet or are working in consciously. As long as he doesn't act on it, it's nothing to worry about. We all have dreams that are sometimes best not told to our significant others. Maybe he was just telling you that to get you jealous. You never know...
2006-11-28 16:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset, but I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. It was just a dream. Crazy things happen in dreams. And, it's not like he's doing it in real life. He's with you, girl. If he didn't want to be with you, then he'd be with someone else. Have more self-esteem and faith in your b/f.
2006-11-28 16:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Holly W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cassie,
I object to the question - "Do I have a right to be mad?"
We spend so much time trying to justify our feelings with logic. How silly is that? Your feelings are trying to tell you something, and you're arguing back. Cut it out.
2006-11-28 16:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a dream about French Dressing all over my Doughnuts
2006-11-28 16:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is dreaming about her it means he is still into her. No matter what he is telling you he probably still has feeling for her. Dump his possesive *** and find someone who will respect and treat you really good. He will probably just end up with his ex again. Good luck
2006-11-28 16:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by trsfernandez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cassie,
Yes, get mad as hell at his dream...and the next time he has one, you rush over to his house, go to sleep next to him and when they kiss again, jump in the middle and beat her up for kissing your BF in Never-Never land!!!
2006-11-28 16:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUp be careful, sounds like he is a jelous guy..and u think its gonna get better>>>nope sweetheart it only gets worse..its just a matter of time he's in ur face or even worse..i hope u dont fall into it like all these other dumb *** girls...and about his ex...duuhhhh DONT U THINK HE STILL THINKS OF HER!!!! wake up chickie!
2006-11-28 16:12:12 · answer #11 · answered by truthgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋