What does it meen when a guy asks you for a hug everyday after school? I know he likes me, he has asked me out before however I just dont feel ready to do that yet. So now every single day after school he asks for a hug and practicly begs me to give him one! Its really strange. Does this just meens he likes me? Or am I overreacting? ...im 13.
2006-11-28 07:52:57 · 37 answers · asked by Krissa D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he likes you and is using this method as an excuse to be close to you. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, just tell him so politely and ask that he respect your personal space.
2006-11-28 07:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by wickedwit 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay...first off, are you well-developed?? Most likely he's getting off from "booby-pressing hugs". Sorry to be so crude about it but it happened to me when I was your age. Otherwise, he's probably just wanting a hug because it's the only part of you he can have right now and wants to make sure you two stay close so when you get older or when you have a heartbreak, he'll the one you run to. You're okay, he probably still likes you but don't worry about it too much. As long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable, give hugs away. Hugs are great things as long as they're meant to make someone happy...not horny.
2006-11-28 07:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No I think your instinct are right on course. He is in love with you. Also he probably enjoys the attion that he gets from you when he gets his hug. Take your time and Take it slow. Let the young man know that you will continue to give him a hug just as long as it dose not creep you out. Also make sure he knows where your lines are drawn at.
2006-11-28 07:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by the_wind_walk_with_you_n_peace 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun you definatly arn'tover reacting guys are desprete somtimes what can i say its true though he just truely loves you and i dont think i would be ready eather if a guy asked me for a hug everyday but do u give him a hug wich theres nothing rong with.
2006-11-28 07:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im sure that it means that he likes you. If you are not comfortable to give him a hug you shouldnt. Tell him that you would appreciate it if you could be friends but that you are uncomfortable with him hugging you all the time.
2006-11-28 07:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by kaelynnsmommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously making you a bit uncomfortable, so you need to put your foot down and tell him no! He will act hurt, but will get over it. You are at an age where you need to learn that you are in control of your body, and you shouldn't let anyone make demands on it that you don't like!
2006-11-28 07:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Little strange????? My family like to give hugs, but this guy might be getting a feel. Don't ever do what is uncomfortable 4 u !!!!!!!!! He might like ya but tell him not to do that.
2006-11-28 07:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has feelings for you. It's up to you if you want to be with this guy or not. It's so simple.
Does it bother you to hug him? If not give the poor guy a chance
2006-11-28 07:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by manosfantasyart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK he's only young too and this is his way to show you affection - it's a bit over the top - so if you don't like it - tell him to stop - if not, give him a hug!
2006-11-28 07:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's probably wanting to hug you so he could get that full chest hug in. Most guys like to feel the boobies pressed against them.
2006-11-28 07:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by Holly W 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋