I'm dating a guy who I asked was he seeing other women and he asked me why did I think that he was and I told him that I just know and he said he wasn't going to lie to me...that he's a bachelor.
Is it cool to go out with a guy that you know is going to occassionally have sex with other women if it's not a committed relationship or should he only be viewed as a booty call because he's a loser.
2006-11-28 07:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're dating him and he is dating other women and you know it, how does that make HIM a loser unless it makes YOU one, too?
2006-11-28 07:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool to date a guy who sleeps with other women as long as you're comfortable with it. If I were you I would not sleep with him so long as he's sleeping with other women. Try to set yourself apart from the other women he's seeing. Do not allow yourself to be used by him. He's a player. The most you can be to him is a friend. Actually he will respect you more if you don't have sex with him.
2006-11-28 15:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect? You don't know each other...is he supposed to declare his undying love for you after one date? He's single, and he's telling you he has no intention of making any commitment at this time. I'd call that 'honesty' in the extreme and if you can't respect a man that tells you the truth, then don't ask for sympathy when you get one that lies to you. In the immortal words of Jack Nicholson: "You can't handle the truth!"
2006-11-28 15:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defintly a loser. Women who have sex with other men who dont feel the same way end up getting hurt. Dont put yourself through it.
2006-11-28 15:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by raerae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are looking for a relationship with him. Who wants to be with someone who was having sex the night before with someone else?
2006-11-28 15:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to date him a while, then if he still wants other women move on. Some girl will eventually win him over.
2006-11-28 15:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey being a bachelor means he is unattached, not neceserrely a loser
2006-11-28 15:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look out for STDs.
2006-11-28 15:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋