I loved a girl so much that I made a tatto of her name exactly on my heart just to see her smile! Got her fav bike just to surprise her. I spent a lot just to get her lucky number "8" for my bike.. (bike number KA 53, N 8888) 5+3 = 8 again!!
Neva said no for anything!! She was everything for me!! my first priority!! I washed her clothes. she didnt force me for that, but voluntarily went ahead and washed them because there is nothing called ego, self esteem, dignity, insult or anything of that sort in true love. But she never understood my love!! I didnt like her wearing certain type of clothes but she hardly listened to me. didnt like she talking to her friends late nights. she used to think that iam trying to rule her! she neva saw the love behind it!! im really possessive about her coz i love her more than anything in my life!
she always compares me wit her ex bf tat he was more sweet etc! it kills me!! i cant take the pain anymore!! & its so difficult 4 me to 4get her. pls advice
2006-11-28 07:47:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love shouldn't be about giving material things and giving every moment of your time to each other. Love should be about giving support and comfort and those kinds of things. An important thing about love is always beeing there when the other person needs you. This doesn't mean they will need you all the time. It does sound like you are being kind of possessive. Show her you love her by giving her some respect and space.
2006-11-28 07:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to accept that your woman/girlfriend is an individual and you cannot rule, dominate or possess her. What I see are some issues with control, what she can wear, when she can talk to her friends on the phone. This is a full grown woman, not a child. She already has a father and he has already raised her.
True love does not dominate, control or possess another individual. It only seeks to make them happy. It is nice that you try to anticipate her needs but have you asked her what it is that makes her happy rather than just assuming that what you have done she should be pleased with. I think she should appreciate what you have done, but her love language may not be what you are demonstrating. You need to sit down with your partner and have a heart to heart talk about what love looks like to her and what things make her feel loved. This can work but the key to making it happen is communication. You also need to make sure she is as committed to this relationship as you are.
Good Luck
2006-11-28 08:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE ruling her. Let her be HER! She needs the space and you can't BUY her love and affection. You should love her for her and let her do waht she wants. And stop doing everything for her. She cant appreciate a person who acts like a slave. Nice gestures should come only at certain times, not every second of the day. Stop being possessive. She needs friends and family. She doesnt want just you. That is totally unfair to her.
Just RELAX! Love isnt suppose to be so controlling!
2006-11-28 07:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt telling her how a lot she ability to you. attempt to precise it as best you are able to. If it appears that evidently she does no longer celebrate with you totally or that she takes benefit of you, than discover someone that would want to fairly celebrate which include your loving spirit. yet keep in mind that if you're coming between her and her acquaintances she will be able to change on you. Its the bros earlier hos ingredient, yet with women individuals. attempt to be better sweet if she thinks you're not from now on, or attempt to decide what she thinks sweet is. that would want to correctly connect the placement. tell her about the way you do the belongings you do out of love for her. do exactly not enable her take you devoid of any interest. sturdy success, sweetheart.
2016-10-07 22:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist of all love is not about controll,it might take you a while to understand this cuz it took me 6 years.you need to understand when to pick your battles and when to smile and bit that lip.you can love someone so much but you cant change someone to the person you want them to be.so love her the for who she is not what you want her to be.let her dress her way let her hang out with her friends and you do the same.love is trust .if you cant deal with that you dont need to be with her.love is loving them for the way the are not what you want them to be. last if you are the one giving and never getting then maybe she dont love you.when to people love each other they both give,not one always taking. i am sure you will find someone,and you will be happy again. good luck
2006-11-28 08:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right my friend. Love's the worst thing. I think you should let her be what she is and if she really loves you then she will realize your love one day and come back to you as you are. Its not worth taking pain in love, please help yourself to forget her and try and concentrate on other things. Hope you forget her and come back to your normal life.
2006-11-28 13:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by desi_gyaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh u r not the only one....well i am some wot same here. Loved someone for 5yrs but he gives damn to it.
Life goes on and so do we.
May be we can be together lol...(kidding)
Have a good life...don't losses hope.
2006-11-30 06:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is like a bird...leave it...if it comes back to u...its urs..if didnt it was never urs...sound cinematic isnt it???? its true buddy....leave her...give some time for ur relation....is she ever loved u...she'll experience the same pain......dont call her for few days...let her be....if she comes back to u.....be happy that she realised ur love....is she didnt...she dont deserve u....better move on.....be happy man.....u r giving love.....try spening mor time with ur male friends and indulge ur self in sports or other outdoor activities u love.....all the best.....
2006-11-28 08:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl that likes the number 9 and move on, she sounds like a gal that is high maintanence
2006-11-28 07:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's just about giving always not expecting anything in return...money can't buy her Love..if u love her set her free, love her for what she is, love her as she is....if she is ur right love, believe me one day, she will understand ur feelings and accept ur love forever..trust ur love, if she is not right person, just move on..forget her..love is never based on rules and conditions or possesiveness...
2006-11-28 09:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋