my ex-girlfriend split up with me but now says that she made the wrong decsion BUT she has been lying to ALL of her friends including me for 3 YEARS about having loads of friend and other things such as having abortions and taking drugs having ADHD and EPERLEPSY also probaly one of the worst things is that she lied about being RAPED yet all of thes things including more were lies. Now she is saying to try make me go back out with her that she thoguht she was pregnant but we hadnt had sex in 4 months and she was getting thiner because she was running and then she said that she went to the hospital andd they said that she wasnt now 1 month later she is saying that she was lying and that she was pregnant and did hava an abrtion
and im confused whether to go out with her or not?
2006-11-28 07:45:52 · 26 answers · asked by alex b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forgive her. if she does it again then tell her to stop.
2006-11-28 07:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not worth it. She's not putting anything into this relationship, and seems to be just keeping you around because she knows she can. Don't give in to her again, and do your best not to be in love with her anymore. She may have wanted to get back to you because she had a moment of "clarity", figuring that you're a "good enough guy", and she probably wanted to start dating guys who "aren't jerks", but shortly after, the fact that she isn't attracted to you probably settled back in, and she's probably off chasing jerks again like an idiot. In the future, though, don't text/call people 10 times in a row if they're not answering. It looks desperate and it can be a turnoff for some people.
2016-05-22 22:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't dare to stay with people like this! she is going to be the same as before. Things that have to do with the character will never get changed, no matter waht she tells you. if you don't want to end up doing more time with her and leaving her again stay far from her. she is a big liar, why would you need this sort of person?
2006-11-28 08:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Who knows ????????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! No! No! No! No! Do NOT go out with her! She is a compulsive liar and has a lot of mental problems. Please do not get involved in that way. I wouldnt advise being friends right now since she continues to lie to you. That is too much unnecessary drama for you. You can be supportive of her helping herself to get better (and she REALLY needs the help), but do not get involved with her romantically. I would pull away from this situation as much as possible.
2006-11-28 07:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you Id just move on. She 's sounds like an attention getter and we all know how that goes. The lies and games never end. So I am sure you can find some one much better out there.
2006-11-28 07:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by crissangelfreak22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple; tell her to go **** herself, your worth more than that man!, No dumb ***** is worth the aggravation. Move onward and upward, plenty of fish in the sea and all that jazz, she made a mistake, how many more will she make over the course of this unsteady relationship. Guy's don't need girls for conversation and companionship, Just ****'em and leave'em that's my motto.
2006-11-28 08:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not listen to her she might just embarress you and do that again.she is a total lyer.you should move on with someone else.and you have to make sure she doesnt lie about you like the girl that you had already and also tell the girl that lies to you why did she do that and just break up but you better make sure to ask alot of questions to her before making decison but it will be better to move on with another girl
2006-11-28 07:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she just wants attention most people who constanstly lie feelalone and just want people to notice them. talk to her and tell her that she needs to stop cos she is starting to hurt people but also let her no how you feel and how her decisions are affecting you!! if she does not listen after that just move on cos sometimes the people you love are the people you have to leave good luck hunni i hope it all works out xx
2006-11-28 08:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by crystal clear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow - that girl has MAJOR issues !!! i think she needs time by herself to sort her head out, at the moment it sounds as though she is reaching out for u because she knows that u still care.... u need to leave things as they are, be there as a friend for her, but don't be tempted to take it further. also, i recommend that your ex gets herself to a doctors. i think she has some issues that need to be dealt with. there are obviously underlying reasons as to why she is behaving like this. maybe she needs treatment for stress / depression, and i definitely think she needs counselling. hope it all works out for u both.
2006-11-28 07:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i have been there! is her name Melissa R.?
probably broke up with you to get you running back to her. It would seem to her that she would gain more control of you that way. when it didn't work, she said she made a mistake.
Man, if she's anything like my ex, drop her quick.
remember YOU CAN'T CHANGE PEOPLE!!!
people can change. but change must come from within
2006-11-28 07:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by Flint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could do a lot better,why be with someone who lies to you ALL the time?
2006-11-28 07:48:38 · answer #11 · answered by Lor24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋