and if you were a girl would you find this a turn off?
2006-11-28 07:41:35 · 22 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I did for a while, being a single mom living alone was difficult. But I worked and paid rent, paid my own way. Once I could afford it and my son was old enough I moved on my own and since have gotten married.
I think the circumstances of you living at home would factor in to how I felt about it. If you had your own apartment in your parents house and paid rent, sustained yourself, had a good job and had a car then it would be fine. When I met my husband he was living with his dd, but they split everything like roommates. A man who lives as a man is definitely more attractive then a mamma's boy.
2006-11-28 07:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone were still going to school or specifically staying home because it helped the parents in some way (paying them rent to help with the bills or helping out with the maintenance of the home), I don't think it's horrible. But if someone was living home just to avoid growing up and being responsible, and still letting Mother make his bed and do his laundry, I wouldn't exactly consider him great relationship material!
2006-11-28 15:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by wynterwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on why they are still living with their parents. 21 is not that old to still be there. I know a 48 yr. old still living with his parents.. now that is a HUGE turn off
2006-11-28 15:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved back in with my mom when I was 26...only for a few months when I got out of the military and was looking for a good civilian job. My girlfriend at the time was cool with it because she knew that I wasn't a mooch or anything or a momma's boy. I found a good job after a few months and haven't had to "go back home" since.
2006-11-28 15:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26 and just went back home for a year. It is doing my head in.
With a guy, I genuinely do not care, as long as he is mentally and emotionally mature. Some guys are just emotional retards which is an extreme turn-off. I don't care where he lives as long as he's mature and aware.
2006-11-28 15:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 21 and i live on my own, but dont really like it, cant stand the roomate so im moving back in, but yeah i dont really mind if a guy lives with his parents as long as he isnt a bum. like if hes there to help his parents out and stuff, then all good, or if still going to school and ish.
2006-11-28 15:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're going to school and your over 21 then no it's not a turn off. but if you're just free loading and working at mcdonald's then yes. or even if you do have enough money to live on your own then yes
2006-11-28 15:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 been on my own since almost 19.
I don't think it is a turn off if the person is still helping parents
that can't help themselves much.
Or if the job is not paying enough to move out.
other wise . depending on the circumstances.
2006-11-28 15:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not still live with my parents and I DO find it a turnoff. My brother in law is 43 and just recently moved out of his parents house. Soo, so not right.
2006-11-28 15:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
anybody not going to school at 21 is mooching of the parent ! Not cool!!! not sexy either !
2006-11-28 15:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋