I am 21 and living with my mom and little sister I was going to move out but my parents recently separated and now divorcing so I stay to help out my mom but...
my boyfriend who is 28 also lives at home with his parents, i think it is ok that I live at home but i think that it is crazy that he does...i understand that he may be in a difficult spot right now he has a kid and is divorced but he has a job...should i just get over it?
2006-11-28 06:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by ::star:: 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think it is great you stay home to help out. plus most people our age and younger don't have that option to live at home! but your boyfriend, i wouldn't worry as long as he makes an effort to move out or puts money away to move out, or shows some sort clue that he doesn't want to live at home forever.
2006-11-28 06:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by KrazyWithA*K* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My main question about his living situation would be ... Is he making a financial contribution to the running of the household? If he is paying rent and for his own groceries, and for his portion of the phone bill, cable TV, etc. then I wouldn't have that much of a problem with him living in his parents' home. BUT, if he is living there without making a major contribution, then he is just sponging off of them, and that does NOT bode well for anyone living in his future!!
2006-11-28 07:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by baeb47 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you really feel about his situation? Does it just embarass you to tell people that? Or are you just basing your feelings on what society says he should be doing/living? If it really bothers you, consider how much and if it is affecting your happiness in that relationship....... then perhaps it might be time to get out of this one. If it doesn't really bother YOU just forget about it and be happy.
2006-11-28 06:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Heathertogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just take a day at a time. Get over it. His parents might need him also. Not all guys are independent.
2006-11-28 06:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is its getting harder and harder for single young people to afford to live on their own. Sad but true.
2006-11-28 07:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey boy jus gonna milk of his parents 4 awhile
if it bothers u then talk 2him bout it if not jus leave it b
2006-11-28 06:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R SOOOO sweet, caring and loving. Do not worry so much.
2006-11-28 06:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, get over it ... it's none of your business.
2006-11-28 07:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋