it has been over 2 months that he has dumped me. i still think about him.. a lot.. is thsi normal?? write back to me pleaseeee!!
2006-11-28 06:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes--it's perfectly normal to still miss the person who dumped you and/or the relationship. Just b/c you miss him doesn't mean that you can't control your behavior or that you have to act on your feelings. In time, you'll meet other guys, have new experiences, and will enjoy yourself again. It's impt. to be kind to yourself during this period and take whatever steps are necessary to heal. I realize it must be tough dealing with the feelings you have, but you will be okay. It's a real test of your strength and I think you'll be proud of how you dealt with your feelings. Good Luck
2006-11-28 06:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is totally normal. It just takes time. There isn't a set time for how long it takes. Just try to live your life, and maybe even date some when you are ready. Eventually things will be better. I know I didn't believe they would either, but it really does.
2006-11-28 14:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the obvious reason is that you still like him! ALOT! and if you tell him how you feel he might actually feel the same way!!! Guys have very complicated minds... Trust me... I really know!!! I broke up with my guy 2 weeks ago and now that I've found out he already has another girlfriend I want him back!!! So you could either tell him how you feel or keep it all bottled up inside!!!
Its your choice!!!
2006-11-28 15:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Milz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to get over a past lover.it all depends how long you've been with the person...and how the relationship was. Just take your time, go have fun with your friends and just have a carefree fun night. Don't go wild or anything but enjoy your life and be happy to be single!! it's what you make of it...so make it work for you!
2006-11-28 14:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, even though this is normal it's never easy. You have to pull way down and find your strength and know that you are a beautiful person with so much to offer. Okay, he wasn't for you but there is someone for you.
2006-11-28 14:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. My bf and I broke up 2 months ago and I still think about him but avoid all contact with him because it will only make it worse. It will get better you will eventually meet someone else and then you wil forget all about your ex.
2006-11-28 14:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through a normal mourning period. It is hard to let someone go, especially if it was not your idea.
Give it time and do not push yourself to get over him quickly. You need to grieve. Relationships develop from your most sensitive emotions and they need time to heal.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-28 14:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you cant get over him is because he was your first and true love. That is usually the hardest one to get over since you and him have been through a lot.
2006-11-28 14:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by tracycat_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is trust me i was in the same senerio. i couldnt eat or sleep but you cant let him inteferre with your life like that because your just wasting time when you could be with someone whos better. you'll always find someone better trust me i never thought i would.....
2006-11-28 14:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by money-ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have u been with him? and yes its normal. but try not to think about him. focus on other things. friends, family, school, work. watever u find fun. go do that.
2006-11-28 14:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋