I am in my third relationship right now and my current gf is kinda wierd I feel. She wants to have sex with me when I am dirty like swetty, after my workouts. She likes to smell me. I dont feel comfortable making love to her when I am dirty but shw wouldnt do it any other way. She says that most women like this but jut dont revele it, is this true, is she normal.I do not want to loose her, she is hot in bed.
2006-11-28 06:50:06 · 27 answers · asked by Joltbolt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Suggest to have sex with her in the shower ;)
2006-11-28 06:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not weird, everyone likes different things in bed, and if you love her as much as you say then you should be willing to do what she wants in bed. On the flip side though she should also be willing to do what you want. So if you aren't comfortable having sex when you are dirty you guys should compromise. Sometimes give in an have sex with her before you shower and other times take a shower...try this...if you really want to shower before sex, but she wants you dirty invite her in the shower with you and use the shower as fore play. You should feel good about yourself if your girl wants you all the time...even if you are dirty, you must be doing something right!
2006-11-28 06:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pheromones. Men and women alike have a scent they secrete that attract the opposite sex. Usually they don't have to stay dirty for sex but women are always attracted to a manly kind of man. Your girlfriend is going to have to find an aftershave or cologne that she likes as well as your sweat. If you are uncomfortable having sex before you take a shower than she has to find another smell to contend with otherwise it won't be long before you lose interest in sex altogether (at least with her).
2006-11-28 06:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by triplete1958 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, there is something really sexy about a man that is dirty. Not dirty as in haven't showered in 4 days, but dirty like just got home from working on the construction crew. My boyfriend works for a mining company and there has been times I have tackled him as soon as he walked in the door.
2006-11-28 06:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by ricksgrl2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats disgusting, she is wierd in my opinion. Maybe thats just a fetish of hers. However if it bothers you then just tell her that if she cared about you then she would respect your feelings on getting showered first. Sometimes after my fiance gets done working out or working around the house, he'll get in the shower and i'll hop in with him and surprise him. That isn't so bad cuz he's getting cleaned off and having some fun at the same time :) Goodluck!
2006-11-28 06:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird it s just not spoken of everyday. I don't think 'most' women is right but alot of women maybe closer to the truth. As long as she doesn't start getting really gross or expecting you to enjoy 'her' when she's sweaty live with it. Plus if she's hot in bed it could be a lot worse.
2006-11-28 06:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by ayanagin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just how women differ.. she may find it attractive! Some women find it sexy to see thier man come in from working hard, and its thier turn on. And they figure its a way to relieve some of your stress from getting down and dirty out in the real world! I am sure you would rather be all squeaky clean, but consider it from her point of view- every woman has her hidden sexual desire- that might just be hers!
2006-11-28 06:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys would enjoy that. Ask her why she doesn't like it any other time..... maybe you smell a certain way and look a certain way that turns her on after a workout....maybe she doesn't like the way you look/smell/feel when you are "clean". I don't know if its "weird", but different. Talk to her about it.
2006-11-28 06:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by Heathertogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer wierd. i'm sixteen no boyfriend. at this age we nevertheless have alot of time to locate somebody. why rush issues and would desire to go through via heartaches at this point? we've plenty extra to handle. :D
2016-10-13 07:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she's wierd. I would prefer a guy to shower so I could become deeply intimate with him. Clean is always better.
2006-11-28 06:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u never heard of pheramones?? they are secreted in our sweat and they are the body's natural love potion number 9!! the fact that ur gf really likes ur smell says that ur body chemestries really match and that shes super attracted to you... take this as a sexy compliment man!! shes not weird... her basic natural humanistic desires are makin her jump ur bones when u smell like that, haha. go with it, especially if it makes her happy :)
2006-11-28 06:54:20 · answer #11 · answered by The Wunder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋