Im 15, 16 in less than a month. My boyfriend is 17, 18 in a month and a bit.
We were friends for a long time before we started going out.
He's had plenty of girls before, he used to be a bit of a slag.
He's my first boyfriend.
Older and more experience. I expected him to be able to kiss me well, touch me well, etc. He can unhook my bra with one hand swiftly, but he touches too hard and fast on the clit(Im not a confident person, but Im comfortable with him so I can tell him), and he can't give me love bites well, even though I can!!
What do I do??
2006-11-28 06:48:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you both are young (and both inexperienced) and still learning about this sex stuff.
I realize that many are going to say you are too young for this and I agree but if you wish to proceed try these things. Just have him slow down a bit... it will be difficult for him as he is at his sexual peak which means he will tend to rush a bit (Very horny!!).... there are many ways to slow down and enjoy each other. Have him run his hand over your body very, very lightly as if he was barely touching you. You can do that to him as well to help him understand... very nice feeling. Get a feather and do the same with it. Start this first then move to the more playful things like love bites so that each of you knows how to do that softly and carefully so each can enjoy. Another idea is to take a bath (not shower) together and soap each other up! This will also show each other how to proceed softly and it will be enjoyable!
Good luck and please be careful (use protection)
2006-11-29 06:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by P!ss Ant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not a good kisser and he can't touch you the way you like to be touched then there's no physical chemistry between you two. Older and more experience does not equal skill and good quality. Just show him how you like to be touched and kissed. Kissing is a good indicator of whether or not a person will be good at other physical/sexual activities. It's all in the kiss...
2006-11-28 06:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him away from your clit, you are only 15. He shouldnt be touching you anywhere sexually yet. You are way to young. You are going to end up being an unwed teen mother. He isnt experienced either. He needs to grow up as well. You need to do the things a young teen should be doing and worrying less about sex!
2006-11-28 06:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oy - 18 is by no means experienced, sweetie.
Expect him to need constant instruction until he's well into his 20's - or just trade up to a 40yr old who knows everything but can't keep up with you as long! :-P
That's the great irony of sex.
2006-11-28 06:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in noway that much older then you or that much more experienced then you are. I would let him know what works for you and what doesn't, if he's as experienced as you say he is...he will listen to you and change the way he does things.
2006-11-28 07:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋