I really like my girlfriend, but she doesn't think I do, because I never do anything like hold hands or kiss her, or, you know, just hold her I guess.
I have never had a girlfriend who I can hang out with all the time, or even ever
I don't really have much experience with this, and i don't really know what to do, how to show her without getting nervous.
I want to do those things, i just don't know how...
Does anyone have any advice?
2006-11-28 06:47:25 · 13 answers · asked by silence_fearer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way,
I'm 14
2006-11-28 06:52:05 · update #1
just do it
2006-11-28 06:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Val 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to be comfortable in your own skin before you can be comfortable around another person. Sounds to me like you are worried you aren't good enough for her-she wouldn't be with you if that was the case so get it out of your head-she obviously really likes you. Just try to remember you do deserve to have her attention and to also give her yours. Put your arm around her or grab her hand when she isn't expecting it. The most wonderful thing you could do is make sure to hug her as soon as she enters the room-this will make her feel very special and remember you are special too! Best Wishes!
2006-11-28 14:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is, how old are you? Next, it sounds like you're dating the wrong girls. Why would not want to hang out with them otherwise? Maybe if you met a girl who you loved being around, the physical affection would naturally follow. But if you really like this girl, you need to hold hands, hug, etc. It makes a person feel good and to feel attractive...and that's important in a relationship.
2006-11-28 14:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to hold her hand then be like NIKE just do it yeah i no you can get nervous at times i dont like it either but the more you do stuff like that the more comfortable you will be doing them more often and howcome you dont kiss her? my x sent me this thing and in it she said a real bf would hug and kiss her not make her hug and kiss him if you go for it i think she would like it but dont go wild
2006-11-28 14:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should take Ur time.. if Ur nervous don't worry about it .it happens to everyone !!! just let her know how u feel and try to show it . HoPe I HeLpEd A LiL :0)
2006-11-28 14:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Naty 34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hold her hand, kiss her, take her out on a date, bring her flowers, etc. get your head out of your butt and treat her the way she deserves to be treated before you lose her.
2006-11-28 14:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get nervous, just send her some flowers like at work, or before you get home and write something nice on the card(NOTHING CHEESY) and start talking to her more and cuddling, I know it may sound old fashion but it works.
2006-11-28 14:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by KIki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first about kissing, if she knows how to kiss (WOOHOO) if not listen anyway use tongue move it around her mouth if she starts shutting her mouth u close it also (same timing same spot)
!!!DO NOT MOVE AWAY LIPS!!!
hold her hand well nothing special just hold her,....
2006-11-28 14:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Veliki Tuki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. hold her hand
2. kiss her
3. just hold her I guess
2006-11-28 14:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you just told us. Or do something special for her, something that she likes.
2006-11-28 14:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really? how hard is it to hold hands?
2006-11-28 14:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋