So my boyfriend is overseas. I thought we had a strong relationship! I'm not the kind of girl that jumps to conclusions. I just recently found out that he has been calling his ex while he's been in Iraq, and writing her letters, she just broke up with her boyfriend...I'm really don’t' think that I'm okay with this? And I'm not sure as to why he would be doing that. We write everyday, we email all the time, I send him packages out at least once a week!! It just seems so out of character for him. He's a really good guy we've spent most of our relationship hanging out with my family.
Just so everyone knows I just found out about this about an hour ago. I'm waiting till the next time we talk to bring it up. I'm a very upfront woman & I don't put up with nonsense well.
2006-11-28 06:47:22 · 4 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She just broke up with her boyfriend, and keeps leaving him msgs on his page, saying things like 'I miss you, and I want you too come home, be safe...',
'It was so good talking to you the other day, you have the best family I think I'll give your mom a call & see how she's doing...'
What is up with that? I don't talk to my ex's like that!!!
One of the best thing about my boyfriend is the fact that we both have friends of the opposite sex. And we are both very much okay with that. So I need to be careful how II handle this, cause I don't want to ruin that for either of us.
2006-11-28 06:51:06 · update #1
Maybe he is just trying to be friend with her, but if he writes too much I would be mad 2, talk to him, tell him it bothers you and what his intentions are why all of the sudden he is writing her
2006-11-28 06:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i had an ex in the army and he used to write me when he was dating someone.
i would write and talk to him when ever i could,
he was really lonely, and needed something diffrent to hear about to occupy his mind.
I wouldn't worry about it,
just make sure you are clear with him and her, that he is your man and your not giving him up anytime soon.
good luck
meg
ps its not like he is here cheating, he just needs a friend
2006-11-28 06:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never put up with being used and it sounds like this guy wants his cake and to eat it too.if he loved you he would never risk losing you this way.keep youur head and ask him straite out if you love me stop hurting me this way there is NO excuse for betraying your trust,tell him to choose her or you he cant and you wont allow him both good luck hun
2006-11-28 06:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by joannluna1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... I had a guy like this. Come to find out he was dating one of the MANY girls that was over there while I was back here. Its ridiculous. DUMP HIM!
2006-11-28 06:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋