My fiance proclaims how much he loves me, but for some reason I just dont feel it...It may be my own personal issue as I find it hard to deal with men with children not my own.
2006-11-28 06:38:06 · 1 answers · asked by Elizabeth E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all you did admit that it's hard to deal with men with children that are not yours...but his children will always be his. Children can be hard to deal with too especially if they try to come in between you and him. You might feel like that the time he spends with the children he could be spending with you. It's a tough situation and it takes a lot of work on your part as much his. Your doing right about trying to get advice. I would say to try going to a pastor or a FREE counselor for advise if you and your fiance can't come up with a solution. I don't know your fiance...but most males don't care for counselors or getting help from a pastor...cause it makes us males feel weak. Well good luck and I hope you get more answers. Listen to what is good and reject whats bad.
2006-11-28 08:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋