OK here's the thing. I have this guy friend and a while ago we both were outside having a conversation, and he told me that he liked me more then a friend, and so did I. Well, we tried the dating thing but it just didnt seem to work out that way. I mean he was always either working or with his friends doing stuff and when I was getin upset and told him this wasnt workin for me he said "sorry but I cant spend a lot of time with you." And all i was asking for was 3 nights outta the week, gosh! So we decided to stay as friends right... well, the funny thing is we still mess around and everything else.... he asks me for a kiss everytime we say goodbye for the night or whatever AND the real kicker, is he's askin and bein all nosy about the guys i'm hangin out with.... Its like he's treatin me like we're still goin out when were not.... whats up with that?
2006-11-28 06:31:35 · 5 answers · asked by Ash420Granito 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It kinda sounds like to me as if he wants you around when it suits him. He wants to know he has you in his pocket so to speak if and when he might want to hook up with you for what ever and that he is being nosy because he wants to keep tabs on you. If this was me I would tell this guy that if he wants to be friends that is fine but there isn't going to be any messing around, if he wants to hang out with you then there will also be other people hanging out with you two as well and to stop asking people about you and the other guys because you two aren't dating per say ,so stay out of your business.
2006-11-28 06:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' kiss him or show any signs of affection what-so-ever. Talk to him about it because it sounds like he is jealous. If he can't make time for you then I would cut it off, and he has no right to intrude on what you are doing.
2006-11-28 14:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by ithek_thundervoice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is we are in the same boat either he is a bit possesive or really does like you... he seems to be affraid of losing you in a sense like you'll find someone better. i think you should ask him what he feels for u. tell if he wants to be together or not bcuz u don't need someone who is going to be playing games with you!!
2006-11-28 14:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by little one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benefits doesn't work... don't tell him about the guys you hang with... say NO when he asks to kiss you, tell him if he wants you, then he has to want to be in a real relationship... because you deserve that..
2006-11-28 14:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are fun like that especially boys that are friends. He is just being a boy that is curious. Don't worry bout him.
2006-11-28 14:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋