ive been seeing this guy on a casual basis.we are not dating.i really really fancy him!he has been chasing me for over a year!
ive only met up with him 4 times.we live in different towns.he says he really likes me and pays me loads of compliments.i feel really good and special around him!
we have only kissed despite me staying at his place,because of me living in a different town.he does want to take "things" further but i really havent done "anything" other than kiss him.its not that i dont want do "anything",im just worried hes only after one thing.he says hes not tho but he would say that anyway.
i ended my 6 year serious reelationship with my ex fiance 8 months ago.we had our own place.this guy knows about my ex,he knew him but they were not friends.my ex has moved away and its definantly over with him!he doesnt know why we split tho.
when i was with this guy last,he was asking about my ex.i told him he was history and that we are never getting back together!cont.....
2006-11-28 06:25:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also asked if i had been with any other guys since my ex.i said yeah,but i aint really.only kissed other blokes.
does he really like me?why wont he ask me out on a date?
he still want to see me even tho i havent "done anything" with him.is he just not sure if im ready for a relationship yet?is that why he is asking about my ex and if ive been with other blokes?
does he think i dont "fancy" him cause i " done anything"?
2006-11-28 06:28:23 · update #1
Good luck.
2006-11-28 06:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you like this guy, you should tell him that. You should be up front about how you feel, about what your needs are, and go from there. The only way you're going to find these answers, is by talking to him, going out with him, and maybe eventually by having sex with him.
2006-11-28 14:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not dating him then I wouldnt sleep with him. If he is serious about you then he will wait for as long as it takes. Sounds like he is insecure about your ex. I would just continue to be his friend and see where things go. Goodluck!
2006-11-28 14:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telll him that you like him but probably u shud take it slow.. if he really likes u then he'll wait...time will say anyway gud luck
2006-11-28 14:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋