My mom wantz me to go to Texas with the family for Christmas and i want to also but if i go then i'll miss a bunch of my soccer games and get kicked off the team, i've told her how i feel and that right after the soccer season i'd buy a plane ticket and fly down to vidit everyone,But she's still making me go...... My sister even said i could stay with her until my mo and little sister get back in Januwary but she said i have to go................ We're leaving Thursday
2006-11-28 06:21:51 · 5 answers · asked by sk8ter_girl_of07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have your coach talk to your mother.
2006-11-28 06:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by awesome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, talk to your mom. Give her your reasons why you want to stay to finish soccer. The key is when doing this to have a non-argumentive tone. Talk to her like you are discussing something in an adult to adult fashion, not just a kid trying to get what they want. If she says no, ask her why. See if you can see her reasoning. Ultimately, if she still doesn't change her mind, don't have an attitude about it. Don't be pissed off at her. Accept it and move on. Soccer season comes every year. Soccer teams will always be there. You never know about your family though. You never know what can happen between one year to the next (or one day to the next for that matter)
Good luck!
2006-11-28 14:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by ncssmgrad1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming this is a High School soccer team. Well, try to compromize. First see how many games you will have to miss and then talk to your mom about leaving one "Game" later than the original date and coming back one "Game" sooner than her original date. Also, talk to the coach, the coach also needs to understand that your a minor and you have to do what your parents say. I'm assuming you're a minor. Otherwise I dont think you would be having this problem.
2006-11-28 14:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably depends on how old you are. Have you thoroughly yet humbly explained the situation to your mom. Especially the part about getting kicked off the team.
You might talk to your coach as well and let them know the situation. Perhaps, they would make an exception or be able to help without stepping on your moms toes.
2006-11-28 14:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by songndance1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knows that going will cause you to get kicked off the team but is insistant on you going anyways, theres nothing you can do.
2006-11-28 14:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋