My girlfriend and I are really close, we care alot about each other. But the thing is, she isn't exactly the type to put out. I try not to think about it but sex is just kinda part of life. I don't know how to tell her and I sure as hell can't ask her to. By the time we actually would have sex there'd need to be a ring on her finger. That's all fine and dandy if this were a storybook relationship but I don't think I can stay abstinant that long. Should I bring it up with her, ask her how she feels about that kinda thing, wait, or find someone else?
2006-11-28 06:07:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really love her and she loves you - then you two should be able to talk about it openly enough that she knows how you feel , and if she isnt afraid you will leave after you do the deed, she may not make you wait, but if she insist on waiting - respect that , its a good thing she is doing for both of you in the long run
2006-11-28 06:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy, so i may not understand your needs..
yes, sex is part of life but its not life itself.. if you take it out, you wont die.. if you love her, you can wait..
i believe you need to talk about this with her.. let her know about your concerns and hopefully it would turn out the way you want it.. if it didnt, then decide.. whether you want a wife or you simply want to get laid when you want..
2006-11-28 06:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by mystery moo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you've been dating and how long you've known each other
2006-11-28 06:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋