I hate my life?

Question

My teacher said I am distracted in class,which gets me so mad because I pay attention.My family doesn't understand me or even try to,i'm sure my so-called friends hate me and could do much better without me, no one loves me anymore and when I spoke to the person I rely to on the phone about something not-so-nice they said about me, that person agreed. Which just comfirms my feeling of being unloved and misunderstood. I get this feeling that sort of wants bad things to happen so that I can feel sorry for myself.

I just want to burst out crying. I want to end my life at times...Help! I don't know what to do? I talked to my parents and I told them that I am depressed and that I want to go to a phsyciatrist, but they took it as a joke and laughed in my face! :((((((((((

Answer 1

oh my goodness. i just want to cry with you right now. i mean, i definitely know how you feel and see why you feel this way. if any one of my teachers told me that, i would of course be angry, but be forced to kiss up to them since they are teachers.
and for your friends, don't pay attention to them. if they don't care, they aren't truly your friends. don't rely on them. i know this is very hard to take in, but you have to do this. i realize that you would feel extremely empty and sad if you did, but you will be free from the bondage they put you in. they are just egotistic people who care only about themselves. i used to feel the same way about the world. it IS a hard place. no one said that it would be easy.
it took me a long time myself to finally connect that to my own life. i hated the way i looked and i hated my life. many times, like you, i felt alone and unwanted, and i pushed away the love that others tried to give in their own ways that i couldn't fully understand. well, sure i knew what they were trying to do, but i couldn't accept it whole-heartedly. i hated the world and i thought every single thing i did was mediocre. what hurt me the most was that many of my own friends always changed the subject when i tried desperately to get their help. from what you wrote, this is somewhat similar to what your friends do: neglect. from what i've personally experienced, i can say that they do that because they either aren't your friends, or they truly are but don't know what to do. they haven't been through these dark days when the days seem to drag and suddenly fade into each other. they don't know how it feels, or they do and don't want to hurt you. it's not your fault. life is a long journey, and now your in a valley. soon, you will reach the top of the mountain, but you have to believe and not depend on the acceptance of other people.
through this time, learned that each day IS a GIFT. think of those who are starving in Africa and would kill to have the luxuries that we take for granted.
i know that i can't change your perspective on life and that i can't physically do anything to help you, but i truly hope that you feel better. you are never alone in this world.
and yes, everything DOES happen for a reason.

Answer 2

First, you've got to realize that not everyone hates you. And your teacher sees things that you cannot see. If you are staring out the window, or just looking at other friends rather than at your books, that's distraction. Friends come and go, more than most of us want to admit to. Takes a long time to form a special bond with friends to the point that they are forever your friend. You are obviously a teenager, and you've got to believe that you are not the only one that thinks / feels the way you do. My daughter who is 15 is exactly like you.

What she did was find a counsellor at the school. One that totally understood her, or at least tried her best. She's come a long way since finding her. If your parents wont or can't help you, go talk to a trusted teacher, or a school counsellor, maybe even your preacher at church, or if you have a friend who's parent you can confide in. You need to vent out your feelings, and then maybe once it's all off your chest, you'll realize that life isn't a bowl of cherries, sometimes there's many pits but it takes a strong girl / guy to overcome these pits and make life work for them.

I wish you all the best!!!

Answer 3

Talk to a school counselor, nurse or principal. Try going to a youth club or to church and find someone to talk to. Keep talking until someone listens. People do love & care about you, they may just not know how to show it in the best way.

I would ask your teacher why she thinks you are distracted in class. Listen to what she says and don't get mad about it. Take a step back & view everything objectively. She may be right some of the time (remember, people have a greater tendency to remember what we did wrong vice what we do right - she may have a preconcieved notion based on something you did a week or month ago) or she may be totally off base. Either way, find out the facts and do your best to correct the problem or her perception of the problem. Getting mad will not solve it.

Try to talk to each parent seperately about what's going on in your life. Talk about the good and the bad. Talk to them at a time when they will be more receptive.

Keep trying. Don't give up.

Answer 4

Inside yourself is a person wanting to come out and be able to have the value to others at which you do view yourself as having. Sometimes I feel alone in the world. Many times I have had someone as me something and when I give my answer often I am interupted and nothing I have said is heard and I feel as though my words have fallen upon deaf ears. You my dear have so much to offer as so do I. I make a point of trying to do so much good for others that it makes me feel good inside. Sometimes I get used. And other times I get a thank you. There will come a day in your life when you find someone that will reach out to you and then that person and you will be able to have a meaning ful relationship be as friends or more. Then you will finally find what you so long for now. It is there just do not give up on hope. If there is something that you are good at. Do it. Keep doing it until you are great at it. Then others will see you for the true kind person that you are. Blessings,

Answer 5

I understand u life is very hard but u have 2 hold on and try 2 be strong and maybe there's some kind of counselor that u can talk 2 or something, Iwish u the best.

Answer 6

Wow, Why do you care about what everybody thinks. That's not important. Your only worth it if you believe your worth it. Life is never that bad to the point you feel the need to end it. Get new Friends or try new things. Everybody is Misunderstood at certain times in there life it's a part of life and ended it all you fail yourself and your future.

Answer 7

Speak with a school counselor or a teacher you can trust. You need some serious counseling and maybe some medication. If there is no one at school to talk to, you must have a special aunt, uncle or grandparent you can turn to. Good Luck!!

Answer 8

Girl, knock off the pity party. You are young and have your entire life ahead of you. You have no bills and a roof over your head everynight. Try thinking about people that eat out of trashcans for their dinner. By next week, some other teenage drama will pop-up. We have all experienced things like what you have described, and it all turns out ok. However, if your friends are making comments about you, that are true, maybe you need to change a little.

Answer 9

OK, BURST OUT CYING FOR THE LAST TIME BECAUSE AFTER THIS ,THE SKY IS YOUR LIMIT.
FOLLOW THIS INSTRUCTIONS.
GO TO THE LOCAL LIBRARY AND ASK FOR "THE MAGIC OF THINKINK BIG BOOK ,
DISREGARD THE PARTS OF THIS BOOK THAT YOU DON'T AGREE WITH AND MOVE ON.,
THE WORST MISTAKE PEOPLE SOMETIMES MAKE IS THAT IF THEY READ SOMETHING AND IF THEY THINK IS FUUL OF IT,
THEY PUT IT AWAY FOR EXAMPLE
YOU NEED TO LEARN ABOUT HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE AND DESTROY FEAR,
PREVENT SMALL PEOPLE FROM HOLDING YOU BACK
GET ACTIVATED GET ENTHUSIASTIC.
THROW THOUGH POISON OUT OF YOUR ENVIROMENT ADD VALUE TO YOURSELF ,AND YOU WILL SUCCED IN LIFE BECAUSE YOU ARE HERE FOR A REASON.

Answer 10

things in life are hard us a teenager we think are parents don't care but they do. is ur depress then go to the counsel to talk and tell her/him how u feel. is u want attention for ur parents then act like a joke *** then they will pay attention to u.