HELP
2006-11-28 05:27:42 · 31 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you got pregnant, this stopped being about you and the father, and it started being about the baby. You need to think about what is right for the baby. The right thing is for the baby to be raised by a mother and a father who are adults and love each other. You need to take care of yourself so that you will have a healthy baby, then give it up for adoption, give the baby a loving, caring family. Remember you will be giving this child a great life, when you give it up for adoption.
Then after you have done that, you need to realize what got you where you are now. Don't have Sex again until you are an adult and you are in a happy, loving marriage. Then you won't ever be faced with this decision again.
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Please remember that Abortion IS MURDER, please don't Murder your baby, you will regret it. DOn't talk to Planned Parenthood. You made certain choices that got you to this point, now start thinking abou this child and what is best for him/her. Murder is NEVER an option.
Do Talk to your parents, that is the best thing.
2006-11-28 05:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your parents first off. If you decide not to keep this baby, there is no need for him to know. If you do keep the baby, let the player know that he is going to be a father and that he should maybe get a job to help you support it. You are only 15 and need your parents right now more then ever. Good luck to you.
2006-11-28 13:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really think you should tell him and make sure he is going to stay in and take care of his part. But i must ask why did you want to have sex with a player but anyway because u did you have to take control are you keeping the baby? if so take parenting classes start saving money because you are like 15 so you are what a freshman or sophmore you need parenting classes anything you can do that baby comes first now your life is pretty much over and if you are planning on giving the baby up for adoption then just don't make a mistake like that again
2006-11-28 13:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know honey I know you are way to YOUNG to be having a child...but you put yourself into this situation when you spread your legs..I know that sounds harsh but its the truth! Your just going to have to face your responsibilities now! You didnt make this baby on your own so Im not expecting you to do this by yourself....so let him know your pregnant and if he wont man up to it get a DNA test and make him pay child support when the child is born! I know this is going to be tuff but God doesnt do things for no reason just remember that....and he is going to be with you every step of the way....but stay in school for sure dont let your future go down the drain! Just keep your head high and you can get through this and if you need a babysitter or just someone to be there for you give me a call my number is 1(903) 278-6148......hope things work out for you!
2006-11-28 13:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am very pro-choice so I hope my answer does not offend anyone. How are your parents, would they support you, and do you think you can handle the responsibility of a child, being a child yourself? The way you break it down you have three options, keep the baby, adoption, abortion. I think the best thing for you to do would be to talk to a doctor. Because of confidentiality agreements and what not, they are not allowed to tell your parents, and it would help to get a medical persons opinion, one that does not have biased in the decision, such as a Planned Parenthood ( who does advocate abortion) or a family planning center ( who are against abortion).
2006-11-28 13:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Silly Billy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its very sad that you're in this kind of situation. First off, you need to tell him. You also need to tell your parents. You're only 15, you still have a long life to live. Whatever decision you make is going to affect you for the rest of your life whether it be adoption, abortion, or having the child. Its going to be tough any way you go. You got yourself into this situation. You will figure your way out. If I were you, I would start with telling him and your parents. See how they feel about the situation. I really hope the best for you in whatever decision that you make.
2006-11-28 13:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by momof2wonderfulkiddos 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pregnet? No Problem. Pregnant, thats serious. But its not the end of the world. Hey, you not the first girl falling pregnant. Tell your parents.
2006-11-28 14:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by paypaldoppie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm usually hard on teenagers who end up pregnant, but today, I'll be nice. Tell your parents what happened, that you know who the daddy is, and see if they will help you tell him and his family. How old is the boy? If he is over a certain age, he can be arrested for statutory rape, which is what should happen anyway, IMO. Either way, good luck, and take care of yourself.
2006-11-28 13:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the POLICE immediately and start the wheels of justice in motion. Remember that 15 gets you 20 to life.
2006-11-28 13:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing gets me more upset then these type of situations......To begin with, why on earth would you even be involved with a so called player? Man, females need to get some sense these days....Now you are pregnant, the guy is gone, you're stuck......Its non sense to me but um......All i will say is good luck, hope things work out for you
2006-11-28 13:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋